My girlfriend only likes 2 positions

Not all women like it on top. I know if it's up to me I'd rather not be, but that's because it doesn't work well. Lol I suck at it.

But hmm if she likes it a but rough and to be dominated then ask her how dominated she wants to be? If you get a safe word set you might be able to do almost anything with her. Us subs like to be told what to do in bed. If we want you to be forceful with us and hold us down or make us do something we will say no to your request to make you do it lol.

Definitely delve deeper into that interest of hers.

I would dump her. I don't know what her problem is or whether she was bullied into sex when she was younger, but she needs to learn that proper relationships are VARIED.

Is she one of those people who thinks that "nice" girls don't do certain things, or that if you do certain things, you're a slag?

If so, get shot of her. She'll find somebody who's as unexciting as she is and then realise how shitty her behaviour is. You deserve WAY better.

Even if she isn't, still get shot of her. No married couple - or indeed, any couple of any kind - should ever have to put up with a near-enough sexless relationship UNLESS BOTH OF THEM HAVE VERY SIMILAR ATTITUDES TOWARDS SEX AND RELATIONSHIPS.

Nope, not normal. I'd consider this very carefully if you expect to be with her longterm. If you don't man-up and try to deal with this, or you stay with her, you'll end up dissatisfied & looking to cheat. My advice, if sex is important to you, and you are not satisfied with her, get out NOW! Maybe people aren't wired the same way, maybe they've been taught sex is dirty, or they just don't value it. Find someone who likes sex as often and as wild or imaginative as you. They are out there. Sex IS a very important part of a relationship, especially for guys.

You could also try telling her you're not happy with just one position and see how she responds. I mean, don't plead, just say you want to do more sexually and are willing to go as slowly as possible but you are starting to think she's not into you. What I mean is, perhaps that might make her feel guilty that you are missing out - which you obviously are - and see how that develops.

Or it could be she has an issue for some reason on doing much adventurously and you need to talk about it.

Does anyone have and suggestions to female friendly positions that might feel better for her or something? I honestly don't care what they are, just something other than straight missionary or putting her legs on my shoulders.

Thanks guys. I have asked her before and we have tried other positions, but its usually a long and drawn out process, not to mention uncomfortable, and she has so far stuck to her guns on it. I also have tried just going for it during sex, but she definately doesn't like that lol. I also find that odd because she tends to like to be dominated and likes it somewhat rough.

Also, tell her to just try things once, if she really doesn't get into them that she won't have to do them again. Works mist of the time.

^ This.

Otherwise that's pretty selfish of her. I mean have you asked her to try different positions? Most women won't do different positions unless the guy asks them to try them. Because we usually like to stick with what works best. Try asking her to try some new positions.

please guys leave me some feed back. this is really important to me. Is there any way I can get her to be a little more open minded?

She doesn't like being on top? Have you tried that? Women usually like being on top. You could also try side-by-side with you in the back. Maybe you two could look at sex positions online or in a book together and let her pick some out or suggest some to her. I think it's kind of selfish for her to be so stubborn about this.

Smack her into submission?