My girlfriend makes a weird offer.

Your girlfriend wants the freedom to have promiscuous sex with whomever she wishes and is encouraging you to do so in order to not feel guilt. She is not attached to you and you should realize this. If you go ahead and engage in type of making out with another girl, your girlfriend will be given the green light to do anything she pleases. That is how she is thinking.

If you want just friendship in your girl with no commitment and no strings attached then you can stay with her.

If you want a monogamous relationship with her than forget about it, drop her and move on.

It boils down to what you want. She is not abnormal, likely just bi-sexual or at least wanting to experiment and play the field.

Seems like shes just exploring her sexuality, dont promote it. Shes in the relationship for the wrong reason.

Absolutely not. That's disgusting. Your girlfriend is a complete slut.

no you idiot its a trick girls do these things not so you can have a good show but so they can exsperiment with girls and tyou end up so loose that you allow her to sleep with other guys and girls dnt fall for it there all the same they are only in ti for themselves and love is just used to stop them feeling guilty about taking all your money in the for m of presents and food for some sex.

it sounds like she is just wanting your relationship to end and she will use your 'fling' as an excuse to end it even if she gave you permission to do it.she is clearly interested in other people besides you.

The first answer had it right. She's telling you a whole lot about her values. If you share them, well, fine. But that you find it "weird" suggests that you don't. Move on.

Dont GO THERE!!! EVER!!!

Well, It's Up To You. I Mean, If Your Not Comfortable, Then Don't Do It. Is She Weird? No. Many Girls Love To See Guy On Guy Action. Just Like Many Men Like To See Girl On Girl Action. It's Exactly The Same, Most Just Don't Admit It.

For An Old Girlfriend Of Mine, I Gave Another Guy A Lap Dance, It Totally Turned Her On. I Didn't Turn Gay, And I Still Am Not Attracted To Men. Your Normal. She's Normal.

Just Do What's Comfortable.

it's highly likely that what your girlfriend really wants is some kind of threesome (maybe 2 guys..by the sounds of trying to get you to kiss a guy) or a foursome (allowing you to kiss other guys and girls)
She may just be wanting to experiment, and want to share it with you, or she may not want to commit to a tied down relationship anymore.

Your girlfriend wants to get one of her friends to both perform oral sex on your extremely inadequate penis at the same time. She would then have you penetrate and impregnate her and her friend. Thanks, man. You helped populate the Earth!... with imaginary babies.

take it. girl swapping can be fun!

Don't be a homo

Great flying fishes and evil Beelzebub! I'm glad there are only two sexes. With all this g/g, b/b, g/b and b/g kissing, it's getting more complicated than it's worth. A lot of couples play with girls, but couples playing with boys, happens although it's much less common. According to IAlwaysAskWhy, many girls like boy on boy action.

You might have to make the great sacrifice. Better you than me. That's a terrible price to pay if you're a straight guy. I think I'd try to explain you're attitude and if it doesn't sell, tell her it was great fun but it was just one of those things.

Nice comments. I just broke up recently and boy do I have a similar story, but better! Yadayada samething only difference is that she just wanted to kiss other girls. I didn't have to kiss other guys or anything she never asked that. She only asked if it was kul for her to do it infront of me and with girls I approve of. i know she loved me and she wouldnt do it in my back. beleive me! I know! Well whatever. I let her kiss her BF (girl), and another girl...but then she asked me if it was bothering me (it wasnt just worried). I truly loved this girl and wanted something serious, so i made the decision of telling her no i don't like it, i want you to just want me, thats the point of a relationship that we complete each other and the rest is excess of happiness if you know what i mean. so i also felt that something like this in the future if she changes her mind or something or looks back at "mistakes" would come back to haunt me or the relationship. so once again thats part of the reason i said no... just me. Any whooooo now the relationship is over, and of course i would have loved to have said yes because obviously she wasnt the one and i could have had threesomes and whatnot... but she broke up with me for other reasons and a lot of time had pass after sexual decision i made. But here is my question for the internet to recommend or judge... If you truly think she is the one, do you accept her as she is and let her experiment....lover her for who she is blah blah blah... or does this shit never work in the end... hence a relationship is not just mentaly and spiritualy, but physicaly aswel 1 1=2 not three but thats just me??

On the note of her asking you to kiss another guy, believe it or not, a lot of girls find guy on guy really hot, just as you fellas find two chicks hot. She probably just figured it would be a chance to ask. To me it's a bit of a trapping guilt tripping way to ask but *shrug* some people think that's a good method.
I would ask her about it and talk it over with her.

do it. i kiss girls. :D

all girls are half lesbo
they just need to decide if they like men or not
all girls experiment
and well you kissing a guy is completly different
tho i guess youve been thinking about it
shes normal for kissing another girl
but not normal for making tht offer

If your not comfortable about it then do not do it. Simple!

I think it's inappropriate. Don't let your girl make out with random people. It makes her & you look bad plus, if you really care about her, don't let her contract the diseases at one night. You'll get affected too y'know..

Take it, you never know about the other girl!

I suggest you do it. She scratched your back, time to scratch hers

If you are okay with it, its fine. If it makes u really uncomfortable when she makes these offers, try talking to her about it.
:)
Good Luck!

Seems fair to me.

Guys, to many of you, seem to like seeing us lez out, which is cool. But just try and suggest that two guys should go at it and you cletch up tighter than Michael Jackson at a boy scout convention.

You want to see her do things with another girl? Cosider giving Her fantasies equal time.

Fair is fair.

Tobra Marie

I see it as very possible that your penis may not be fufilling her needs. Therefore she is trying to intigrate another male into the situation. She will probably be choosey about this and it will probably be someone she has fucked behind your back already to assure the guy is hung like pony. Shes probably been fucking this guy already for awhile which is why your cock is not pleasing her any longer and now she needs a reason to fuck him right in front of your face. If you ever watch porn there is always a guy wanking in the background watching a girl getting fucked by some hugeass monstercock. This will probably be you. Don't be surprised if you end up just doing alot of watching while your girlfriend pussy gets totally destroyed. Good Luck. Have a good one!

lol ya