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my girlfriend and i have been dating for 5 months now. in the start of the relationship she was afraid to have sexual contact but now she will because she feels comfortable. but when i try to talk about it or see what she likes she will not talk about it or she will change the subject. IIN?
She was probably brought up in a conservative home. Sex is a taboo to most people.
Normal. Like the 1st comment, sex is not a topic people talk about in general. A real shame. Just keeping talking about it with her and don't get flustered with her. Take care and good luck! ^_~
I was just like her........afraid to talk about and address the subject of sex. My problem was that I didn't really want to have sex yet....I hated being pressured about it all the time and began to question whether my boyfriend loved me for who I was or if he just wanted the physical part of me. Believe it or not, there are still some women out there who want to wait until they are married. Sometimes it's just difficult to explain that to your boyfriend and I feared if I did, I would lose him....so it became easier for me to simply avert the topic of sex. But I also had sexual issues from my past which included severe sexual abuse and that fact hindered our relationship and it was really difficult to discuss anything sexual with him. What I truly wanted and needed from him was to just be held, protected and loved without the pressure of sex.
She is just shy or have less experience. You could offer her to let her do the job one day! Just lay there naked on the bed and let her do what she wants with your cock! I like it when my boyfriend does that, take mental notes of what she does and do it to her the next time!
Or if you masturbate togheter ( if not you could start doing so , it might seem wierd for you but it gets her more ''familiar'' and comfortable with your genitals and your body in general) see how she touch herself and again take mental notes.
Or you could just try different things with her and she will initiate the stuff she like the most the next time.
Personaly this is some trick that did the job for me, I wasn'T shy,it's just that I was new to that and my boyfriend showed me alot and now I know what I like and what I don't like and I even watch porn to ''learn'' new tricks and bring that back in our bed ;)
She is most likely just shy. As a woman I find my bf is moreoutspoken about what he likes compared to me. If he asks I say I dont know, maybe she just doesn't know what to say or finds it awkward. tart by perhaps asking her if she likes certain stuff (so the answer is a simple yes or no) and she may open up abit
Maybe if you tell her what you like, she'll feel more comfortable about telling you. Or get her drunk..it sounds bad but that's when it's easiest to open up for a lot of people. And no, I'm not talking about taking advantage of her during this time.
Definately normal. I was the same way when me and my bf first started dating. Eventually he broke that shell. Its just something kind of hard to discuss cause it just so awkward and more personal than what ive ever been use too. Id just give her sometime.
dont make too big a deal about it.. dont forde a conversation about it.. when the mood is right for the two of you it'll happen. have fun :)
thank your lucky stars dude, she will bring up the reason,girls allways, have time for that,just have fun dude.dont sweat the small stuff.
She's probably not ready. Once she feels ready, you will be saying the opposite. Because she won't take her hands off of you lol
Sex isn't hard. Honestly, it's just a game of trial and error. Do something specific one day, and if she doesn't like it, try something different. It's a cycle man.
I think she is just shy, Some women are very disclosed about their sexual experiences. sorry you have ot deal with it.
I'm like your gf I don't like talking about sex. I think it should be kept between the 2 people who did it. And if you keep it between the 2 people then there's no reason to talk about it because you were both there. I have found that a lot of girls are like that, it's a guy thing to like to talk about it.