My girlfriend is negative and always has a problem

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So, I've been dating my girlfriend for about 2.5 years, and I have noticed over time that she is just really negative about life and always has to have a problem. We both love each other and often do have fun together, but its most of those other days where she is always unhappy. She always fights with her mother, and if not her then she is fighting with people at work or with her friends. If those are okay then she is ether upset about herself or her life and lastly, if all else fails the constant pointless fights shell have with me. It never seems to end, its always seems like there is an issue that we have to deal with and I am just drained of listening and dealing with all these problems. I love her and have tried to make her happy, I even help her with a lot of her problems but, it always falls back into the same old pattern with no end. I know shit happens in life but, she seems to have a problem with EVERYTHING. I feel that I have started to become Depressed and negative and I feel like its started to affect things in my life. I need advice on what to do?

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  • blueDolly
    11 years ago

    You need to ask yourself WHY you fell inlove with her in the first place. And you need to tell her how you feel- which will definitely end up with more negativity from her side. You will probably eventually have to let it go, she has obvious issues and if she can't function without making drama every step of the way then you have to cut your losses and walk away. Imagine being married to this woman? Get out while you can.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    You need to break away.

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  • darausnicht
    7 years ago

    My girlfriend's jealous sister gets jealous and nasty to me. It's because she's never met a j\bisexual man before and she calls me the faggot and her sister the whore. Sourder. They "mysteriously fell" more often in men's jails.

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  • Jaclynlol
    8 years ago

    (Laughing out loud lol)

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  • Jaclynlol
    8 years ago

    Lol lol

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  • Jaclynlol
    8 years ago

    Ummm I'm a really good fan and sad you can marry me instead of jeanna

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  • annm2361
    11 years ago

    I think this is me.... I sometimes feel like this and that I'm dragging my ova half down. But he seems to want to change /help me. Me I no it's me that's the problem that needs help. U should talk but remember relationship are hard work and need attention and work to keep them happy and working. I say have time apart to see what is happy for u both. Mine won't leave even when I say leave.

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  • ANDYTREK247
    11 years ago

    you need to take a break from her while she gets her life back on track maybe she will come to her senses in time.?

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  • Roberto
    11 years ago

    Had a girlfriend like this, got really fucking depressed but I kept telling myself that I "love" her and have to keep going. But then I realized, that why would I need to listen to this bullshit anymore? Okay sad for her that shit don't go right, but I'm not either in for taking the storm on day to day basis. So I broke up and felt good about it, best fucking choice of my life and it seemed to have fixed her to to some level since it was a change of "environment", which usually keeps depressed people depressed.

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  • Cuntsiclestick
    11 years ago

    The negative relationship seems to have taken a toll on you. You should just dump her.

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