My girlfriend is a very serious cutter
So ive been dating this girl for about 4 months now. she is very mentally/emotionally unstable. she is a very serious self harmer, her arms are so bad you cant even see her skin tone, its literally all scar tissue. i used to cut myself, but not to that extent
we go into public and everyone stares at us, and its obvious why. i love her with all my heart and seriously want to help her, but she continues to cut. ive tried with all my might to prevent her from cutting and i go to sleep every night not knowing if she will even be alive the next morning.
i honestly want out the relationship because its physically, emotionally, and mentally exhausting i don't know how much more i can take...she threatens suicide if i leave her. she says she will kill herself and blame me in the note. because of this im guilted into staying in this extremely toxic relationship. all my friends and family think im insane for even dating her in the first place..when i first asked her out i truly believed i could actually save her