My girlfriend don't clean house or car and clutter the house.

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My girlfriend is a slob although she has a professional job and she hide the fact that she is a slob at work. Her car is always full of junk and is embarrassing to be in traffic near a truck or bus because they can see down in the car..She washed dishes 10 times out of the 18 months we lived together.. she never clean up the house and seem to be comfortable around filth and clutter. I think she is a hoarder because I do all the cleaning and cooking for her and her son who is similar to her and she will not change..I get the junk off all the counters and floor such as can goods and potatoes and onions, and newspapers and other items and she just clutter the space again as if she cant live without junk around.Although the only thing she do is shower, I will not have sex with her and do not love her anymore because it is a turnoff for a woman to be that way..

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  • iEatZombies_
    11 years ago

    If she didn't hide this from you, aka if she had a dirty house when you came over before you lived together, then that's a problem you knew about and have to confront carefully. If she didn't have a kid, I would say don't confront her at all. By accepting this when you started dating, you accepted it as a part of her.
    If she hid it from you, aka had a clean house when she knew you were coming over, then that's not okay on her part and she should be bluntly confronted for the secrets and deception, as this was clearly an attempt to get you to date her. Which means whether it was a put on or not, she needs to come to compromise with you and apologize to you.
    If she became like this through a period of time, she may be depressed or have some other problems that have effected her for the long term- which should be confronted in a much more civil manner and with some sympathy. Again, still you must be stern because of the child.

    Figure out which was the problem and then you can better deal with it.

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  • plum6
    11 years ago

    come on now, all of the commenters above have a pretty one-sided and uninvolved opinion about the matter.

    The woman can still be a great person and loving companion even though she doesn't take an interest in chores and cleaning up around the house.

    My girlfriend used to be a bit like this, and I feel it was because she was catered after by her parents her whole life. It might take some fights between you two but people can really evolve in this respect.

    I think no-one feels like taking care of their home after a long day at work, but with some motivation this can really be improved.

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  • snafu
    11 years ago

    tell her to clean up her act or your leaving you can't live with a pig

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  • thanksforthefreecar
    11 years ago

    Tell her to clean up after herself

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  • FreDraken
    11 years ago

    Unless you have such a pathetic self-image that you feel lucky that ANY woman will put up with you, you would be smart to get the hell away from this situation. If you hang around with slobs, they you'll eventually marry one and/or father a kid with one. And you will be really sorry. I promise you.

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