My girlfriend and i.

Okay, So Here's How It Goes Down.

My Girlfriend And I Have Been Together For About 8 Months. I Have Many Friends Who Are Girls, And Love Hanging Out With Them. But My Girlfriend Gets Jealous Of Them. She Knows That I Love Her, And Plus, I Could Never Imagine Cheating, And My Friends Are Not The Most Appealing Anyways.

So What I'm Trying To Say Is, Should She Be Jealous? Am I Normal For Being Upset About Her Not Trusting Me?

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80% Normal
Based on 103 votes (82 yes)
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Comments ( 17 )
  • Ramit10

    Normal to be jealous but if she wont let you go out because of them then she has a trust issue. I let my g/f go out and hang with other guys if she chooses I know she would never cheat and I trust her she does the same with me

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  • Darkbrokenangel_28

    Alot of girls trust them man not the other people.

    And say its normal to be Jealous.

    She tell her that you love her.And that theres no other girl out there for you besides her.She don't have to worry you will never cheat on her.

    Lie to her and say you get Jealous too because she so beauitful.

    But the girls aint your tip.

    But only say that if you belive it all.

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  • most girls are like that..i know cause most of my friends are guys and most of their gf's despise seeing me with their boyfriends..tell her that you would never cheat on her coz u love her and that your girl friends are only just friends.ask her to be friends with those galfriends of yours..that would kinda make it easier for her to trust n not be jealous..then she'll understand..

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  • Put yourself in her place, though.

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  • theonespg

    I'm not concerned about the jealousy. she should get over it. but why did you cap the first letter in every word?

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    • cro123

      Jealousy is natural.Humans compete for mates.
      your female friends are competition for your mate.Its just nature!set it up where the females gather with each other without you;this will improve their bond and make her more comfertable.

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  • lwinnchick

    shes just a jealous person. shes insecure about your love for her, but theres nothing you can do to change that.

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  • Hiljaisen_susi

    Show her your post. It may help her understand.

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  • XoXoGossipGuy

    Jealously overrides logical playa

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  • Alwayscometogethernomatterwhat

    I've been with my current girlfriend for over 3 years now, and in the beginning of our relationship it was exactly the same thing as you're describing.

    The thing I did was taking her with me to meet my friends, male and female, so that she could realise there really isn't anything to fear. A couple months ago another girl even spent the night with me while my girlfriend was on holiday. I told my gf I was expecting a female friend to have a sleep-over and she was fine with it. I've known the sleepover girl since kindergarten and I wasn't willing to give up a friendship like that. Nevertheless, my girlfriend knows she can trust me and I haven't cheated once.

    Your girlfriend just needs to realise that a good relationship is always based on trust, and with that trust comes a part of freedom. If not, the relationship is already doomed.

    Hope this advise is of any use to you, I wish you and your girlfriend the best of luck.

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  • teehee

    Its not that she "should" be jelous.. she just is. i can completely see why she is cos most girls have that problem... they get jelous.
    it is normal that you're upset but i dont think she doesnt trust u its probli the girls she doesnt trust.

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  • paloms

    well what i think is that maybe u r 100%% secure about what u feel, thats why u get angry, cuz u really know... but shes not that secure, so... make her feel u love her and u wont cheat.

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  • smiledude

    ude perfectly normal. she is jelous tell her that she is the only 1 for you and ure freinds have no appeal to you whatsoever just reassure her that you love her.

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  • emilyf

    Well, you could just keep assuring her that you love her and that you would never do something like that. If you do now, do it even more.

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  • Cartello

    Are you normal for starting every individual word with a Capital letter? No Sir You Are Not.

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  • I think you should be upset for her being jealous. Tell her to grow up and get over her own insecurities. If I had a boyfriend I certainly would never go for him telling me to stop talking to guy co-workers, or guy friends at college or wherever.

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    • darrenm45

      ur just a pussy :P

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