My girl mate keeps overthinking our friendship

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Ok so my girl best friend is single now and im with her almost every night ever since shes been broken up. We both agreed to keep the relation ship as friends and we've spoken about not getting feelings for eachother. The thing is we had sex 2 days later and now she thinks i like her more then a friend and thinks that im clingy, when really im not, now shes trying to back away because she thinks i want a relationship because we fucked but thats not the case. I let her do her thing, but she gets upset when i do something she doesnt like.. Is that normal?

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  • RoseIsabella
    7 years ago

    What did you expect? You slept with someone who's messed up from a breakup?

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    • johnnyjohnjohnny
      7 years ago

      she was more then happy to do all the things we done, i didn't force nothing....
      ITS CALLED MOVING ON

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      • RoseIsabella
        7 years ago

        Sleeping with your best friend when that person is on the rebound is called "... MOVING ON"?

        Friendships generally change rather than stay the same after sex. It's kinda foolish and naive to expect things to stay the same. People catch feelings one way or the other, and usually one of three things happen; one person becomes attached while the other isn't, one person is disinterested even repulsed while the other isn't or miraculously bother people somehow share the same feelings whatever those may be. If you don't believe me just relax then wait, and see what happens.

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        • johnnyjohnjohnny
          7 years ago

          well we've still been fucking till today and nothings changed, we still kick back and have a laugh like we always did, nothing feels different shes still my best friend... why would i wait and see what happens when we always speak about our feelings and we know we're always gonna be friends no matter what...

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          • RoseIsabella
            7 years ago

            Well, then then what's the problem, because your post distinctly sounds like that was a problem. To be honest this most recent response sounds rather defensive, but if everything's fine then you have no problem. Meh.

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  • funlovingbitch
    7 years ago

    That's what happens when u have sex it changes perceptions of you relationship

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  • scabbymeatcurtiansandarsecheek
    7 years ago

    Normal for a stupid Mexican!

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  • Lovleybitch
    7 years ago

    Wtf
    You had sex, it os normal for her to think that yiu might want to be in a relationship.
    Question who kissed who first?

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    • johnnyjohnjohnny
      7 years ago

      i kissed her first
      she would always call me and tell me all these things we should do together so she basically asked for everything....
      i never forced her to do anything she wasnt comfortable with

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  • blackgolden
    7 years ago

    Just let her be, don't talk to her and she'll get the idea. Her ego is too high.

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    • johnnyjohnjohnny
      7 years ago

      Its kinda awkward now, she had alot of guy friends and now she fucked them all off and kept me and is trying to hint out she wants a relationship

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