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She loves to finger my ass during sex but I don't really like it. It hurts and my ass feels sore afterwards she will do it without asking me three fingers at least all the way to the knuckles. She says it really turns her on but I don't get how I want to tell her to stop but I don't know how. Is this normal and how do I get her to stop without pissing her off.
just say it feels uncomfortable no matter how many times she does it, ill assume you are male and the rectum difference between male and female is quite a bit so fingering a male can be pretty daunting, explaining this will prevent her from doing it again
Put a bottle of lube next to the bed, the next time she goes thete, whip it out. If after she does it with lube, because dry can hurt like hell, then just tell her no.
Just say no to her if you don't like then don't let her do it after all it's your body
If you don't like it just tell her to stop. Don't worry so much about her feelings, because it's your body, and you have a right to say happens to your own body! Maybe you would be better I off without her if she isn't willing to listen to what you have to say about what does, and doesn't happen to your own body.
You are lucky you got such babe.
Ask her to lubricate her finger and Go slowly inside your hole . :)
She's doing stuff after you've explicitly said no to, that's serious sexual assault.
Tell her to stop because it is making you uncomfortable and you dont enjoy it. Sex is about consent and both of you should enjoy it. Bring up you fucking her ass if nothing works.
If she's really into it and you're not okay with it, you two might be sexually incompatible. Try making it better for yourself with lube. Use it as a way to invite something in the bedroom that you really want to do. Both sides should be able to compromise.
She probably lets you do things to her that she may not like. Stop being a wimp and let her enjoy it!