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She died of cancer and worse yet I'm in north Carolina and her grandma has the funeral in Florida so I never vist her grave is this normal
This breaks my heart. I'm so sorry for your loss. The pain of losing someone we love never goes away, but eventually it lessens in time. ::hugs::
I'm sorry for your loss. It's normal though.. And don't stress the grave thing too hard. SHE isn't in Florida, she's with you in your thoughts, prayers and memories. <3
If I was with you right now, I'd give you a bro-hug. I can't even imagine. That's totally normal. Things like that, you never get over, you just learn to deal with them.
I think visiting her grave could be beneficial for you. I don't hope you forget her, but i hope your suffering transforms into good memories.
Yes it is ! My bestfriend committed suicide && I think of her all the time && when my grandma died bt I was only 3 years old n I cry over her constantly cause I can remember her exactly how she was !
My baby brother was born when I was four, I was young and didn't get to go into the room. Three hours later he died. So I never knew him, never met him once, the only representation I have of him is a picture of him before he died and a pillow my mums friend made out of his blanket. So at least you knew your girlfriend. Don't be sad, be happy and remember all the good times you had together and laugh and smile about them! She'll be happy to see you happy!
I'm an atheist so I won't go to far into the "she's looking down on you thing" but mate, if there is a heaven I'm sure she's there and she's sad because you're sad! Cconsidering she's gone mate she can't have fun in life so you should have double the fun and be extra happy to make up for her! You'd do her and yourself a favour and she loved you very much I'm sure ::brohug:: I'm sorry for your loss mate.
That is so sad :(
And yes, it is normal to feel the way you do. Just remember the good times & that she's in a safe place.
Lord of all cabbage sounds like a fucking idiot, you'll never get over the pain but it will lessen over the years
Normal and I'm so sorry about that. Just remember she always there with you and she loves you with all her heart.
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i think its because you never had closure. take a trip and visit her grave and say goodbye.
It's normal but you should move on. Their are still a lot of things out their in the world for you!
Totally normal. While it's best to try to move past such a tragic happening healthily, it takes time. I've never had the misfortune of having a GF die, but I can tell you a long-term GF I had about the same amount of time ago still makes cameos in my dreams occasionally. You can make strides in moving on, but fully moving on may never happen.
You should try to visit her in Florida, even it takes a lot of time to save the money. You need to see her one more time, even if it's juat as it.
I'm so sorry for your loss and I wish I could hug you or even just make you feel better.
My dad died of cancer about a year ago and I cried for a whole day and that was about it. So if anyone isn't normal its probity me. I have heard of people crying over the lose of a loved one for 10 years.