My gf broke up with me because i dont want her to talk to other guys

Maybe next time don't be such a clingy little shit.

You don't have the right to tell your gf who she can and can't talk to. Get some therapy and learn to trust and not be possessive and maybe it will work out with someone else in the future.

I'm sorry, but ya'll are obviously not compatible. I don't think there's any hard and fast answer, no pun intended, for whether or not it's okay to have opposite sex friends, but I do think it's only appropriate if the friendship is entirely platonic. While I don't endorse people trying to control one another, perhaps that's what you were doing with her, but maybe not? Additionally, I do want to share that the woman with whom my ex cheated started out as just a work friend. If I had to pin down one rule regarding opposite sex friendships while in a committed relationship it would be that one ought not to make friends with anyone one feels attracted, or worse yet senses some sort sort of chemistry or spark.

I also think the grass is not necessarily greener on the other side of the fence, but rather it's greener on the side you water.

I can't tell you what to do, or what's right for you. Please just don't be afraid to seek professional help now that you're in crisis

P.S. My cat is sleeping like an angel, and he just released a stinky, but ephemeral fart.

Was she the one who made the rule of you not talking to anyone else too?

Either way, it sounds unhealthy.

Stop being so controlling relationship needs trust my husband in earlier yrs was exactly the same now he doesn't care I love him

Buy a baseball bat and start smashing heads.

That's abusive behavior, mate. She probably felt threatened.

Maybe you were more in love with her than she was with you. You pretty much make it clear that you don't trust her one bit even tho you say you "loved" her. If you really did love her you would trust her, believe her, back her up no matter what UNTIL she shows you reasons not to. Love is patient, kind, trusting, loving, understanding, faithful, dedicated, and honest. It sounds like you had none of that in her. If you feel you need to control someone- then in the back of your mind you fear she will leave you. Just like she did. You fear she would find someone to treat her like a woman, with respect, and like someone who truly cares, respects, and could love her. The big issue I think is you say you didn't "talk" to other females, but I bet sure as hell you cheated on her and fucked around. Guys try to control women so there is structure enough that gives them the opportunity to go fuck a slut somewhere. Many Guys feel they have the right to screw around simply because they are males. They seem to forget that if they suspect their gf/wife is cheating. If you can't be faithful don't be on a "committed" relationship.

If you want her back , get a new gf then show her around everywhere and then ur ex will get jealous and then you break up with ur new gf and go back to ur ex

Nothing worse than a clingy dude. Learn from this and don't smother a girl with your insecurities.

You should tie up her new friend and make him watch you having sex with her. It's the only way some will learn!

That will teach you for invading us and leaving Mexico!