My friends told my hubby i'm depressed due to my sins!

My best friends told my husband that I was depressed because of sins I'd committed. They never talked to me about my "sins". They told him I was sneaking out to sushi! Had a secret credit card and was frequenting bars? All of it was relatively true but my husband knew about every single thing they said. How do I approach them? They could have potentially ended my marriage if it had really been a big deal. It's been weeks since we talked and my anger is consuming me! We used to hang out 3 or 4 times a week. It feels like my Sisters turned on me! Is it normal for friends to tattle before talking to you?

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  • MercedesBenz

    Jealousy. Want your man. Just make sure you tell your husband everything and keep him in the loop. He shouldnt be talking to your friends while you are not around anyway. My girlfriend's friends tried to pull that shit on me and I said, "she's not here. Call her on her cell." When they said, "but were here to talk to you. We are really worried about her." My response-- "Youre not my friends. So if youre so worried about her, call her on her damn cell already." I stay out of the female drama. Thats all those bitches are trying to do to you.

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  • korn3654

    Chicks are such backstabbers. They want your husband.

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  • dappled

    Sins? They sound scarily judgemental and are disguising that with religion. Too many people use religion as a weapon rather than a shield. I'd write them a letter, telling them how they've made you feel. People, for whatever reason, put more credence in the written word. It's also more formal.

    You'll get an immediate apology, but do you really want one from these people? They sound awful.

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  • Gardenia

    Kick her fucken ass, and tell her to mine her own damn business.
    Idk... I always wanna beat people up.. So.

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  • Skitzo1

    Oh dear.
    Where do I start? Well..
    First off, you have not sinned, a Sin is to do something against the morals of a Divine Law, that divine law being part of the will of the so called "God" if you are not religous, you cannot sin.

    If you are religous, you have not sinned. A sin is more or less a bad deed like lying, bullying or commiting some crimes. Or even becoming Greedy, Lazy, Jealous, Vain and more or less up your own ass, Wrathful, Lustful or Gluttonous. However, I doubt your so called God would throw you into "hell" for doing what you did.

    Don't worry about those minor things. Its nothing to regret, if you lied, confess. Its not like you snuck out everyday to kill people and eat their corpses, grind the remains into mince meat and feed them to your husband in a spagetti bolognese.

    Your okay [thumbs up]

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  • Vampgirl

    Get yourself new friend and dump those no good bitches they never were your friends anyway and stop feeling bad or angry their not worth the energy! I have only 3 best friends and I will never dream of telling their husbands anything personal of them even if they were cheating or whatever its called respect for your friends privacy and trust, without trust no one is a friend!

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  • ellaisrad

    sounds like they're jelous

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  • Whitneyhouston

    get new fun friends who don't tattle no matter what you did.

    Like, idc if you were cheating on your husband or something REAL bad (hypothetical) they should NEVER tattle on you. That's just childish. Especially to your husband, like he owns you? Was he supposed to discipline you for this? you're "friends" need to mind their own business. They just sound jealous of the fun you're having with an understanding husband who doesn't mind you having fun.

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  • Trismegistus

    Is it normal for moderators to be assholes?
    Yeah.It is.Normal.Indeed.

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  • cda6

    I suppose that could be possible. I was totally shocked when I found out why they were ignoring me during the roughest part of my life. Our families hung out a few times a week and after I lost some weight and got a new hair style they bailed! I got really depressed and they literally never came to see me.

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