My friend told me this and i don't know what advise to give, help

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my girl friend is feeling really guilty about something she did, she slept with one of her friend's boyfriends after being really really intoxicated and feels terrible now and doesn't know what to do. i don't know what to tell her but i don't want her to feel guilty because she really didn't mean it. she was really drunk and was really really upset. please don't tell me something stupid or mean. is it normal should be more supportive and less full of newbie trolls. so please spare me the dumb responses. thanks.

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  • kelili
    11 years ago

    If she remembers that means she wasn't that drunk!!! And she could have said no. I would never forgive a friend who did that to me. Sincerely I think you should leave her with her problems and take your distances. She has shitted it's not you who has to wipe her off.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    Just because you write some nonsense about not wanting people to troll you or write "dumb" responses isnt going to keep me or people like me from saying what needs to be said.

    If your friend really did that then she should feel like shit since what she did was a shitty thing to do. And the mentioning of being drunk is irrelevant. Being drunk isnt an excuse.

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  • jkilove
    11 years ago

    Come clean don't bury it it will only be told to that person through a far off resource and if she de friends you then she must not have been your best friend and if the guy wasn't drunk he is wrongful for letting that happen

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  • nitetech05
    11 years ago

    I don't know how old most of the repliers are, but from a "older" and wiser, logical viewpoint. If the guy doesn't want the story told, he won't tell it. So, if that's the case, tell your friend to keep her mouth shut. Ask the big man for forgiveness if it's that much on her mind. Monogomy is not always all it's cracked up to be, we are animals after all.

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  • wigsplitz
    11 years ago

    Is your 'girl friend' really you, by chance?

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    • shuggy-chan
      11 years ago

      I was wondering the same, as for advice all u can do is either come clean or bury that it happened and deal with the guilt if u can. I mean what's the guy doing, feeling, think. Do u know?

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