My friend's girlfriend

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I'm friends with this couple and I get along with both of them but I typically get along with the girl better, the only problem is I feel a little bit uncomfortable when I'm around her.

We have a bit more in common so I enjoy her company more but I feel uncomfortable because I'm attracted to her. Both physically and mentally I'm attracted to her, she's a beautiful girl with an even greater personality.

And this makes me feel uncomfortable, because she is my friend's girl and while I may not deserve a world's greatest friend mug I'm a firm believer in the rule, you don't hit on your friend's girlfriend.

As far as I can recall I've never consciously hit on her but It wouldn't surprise me if I have done so subconsciously and thinking about it makes me feel like shit.

IS this normal that I feel this way?

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Based on 50 votes (46 yes)
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Comments ( 11 )
  • Bake34
    8 years ago

    It's normal to feel guilty that you like her. It sounds like you're going to have to make a decision though. Staying friends with him or possibly breaking them up. I promise you if you guys keep spending time alone together something will happen. We're only human and if you put yourself in that position it sounds like you'll regret it. Choose wisely.

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  • politicalinmate45
    8 years ago

    Don't do it brush....what if ur friend hit on Your girl? Or ur mother for that matter. See wat I mean. The betrayal. Don't do it!

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  • Bragga
    8 years ago

    Okay lookit man. You like this girl. You shouldn't, but you do. There's nothing you can do about the fact that she's great. You can't make her worse, don't try to make her seem worse. So the end goal is to get with this girl. You could wait a long time for them to break up, and then an even longer time for them both to get over it, talk to your friend about it a little and go for her.

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  • Dread-pool
    8 years ago

    i'd say avoid her unless you really see something in her.

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  • Glddraco
    8 years ago

    Steal her away. You'd be doing your friend a favor.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      how would I be doing him a favor?

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  • Tealights
    8 years ago

    Confess to your friend that you like his girlfriend, and end the friendship for a while or just hang out with your male friend only. It's the only logical approach. Anything else will just cause you more guilt or emotional pain.

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  • IMissMary
    8 years ago

    She knows you are attracted to her

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      I wouldn't be surprised in the slightest.

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      • IMissMary
        8 years ago

        Knowing that she knows yet still smiles and is close to you means she is either game or she is just getting a big ego boost.

        Or both.

        Let her see your hard on threw your pants and see what she does.

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        • shuggy-chan
          8 years ago

          Yeah dont do that smh

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