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He asked me if I thought it was normal that he wouldn't let a girl give him a bj. I told him i definitely thought it was different. He explained that it was because he was raised by all women and he finds it disrespectful. Is it normal?
I guess he was raised by feminazis lol.
While some women find the act disrespectful, if a girl is eager, then it's not disrespectful for her, since she consented. In fact, saying that she's too stupid to explore her sexuality is disrespectful.
Basically, just say something like that to your friend, just add something about mansplaining, Madonna-Whore complex and patriarchal suppression of feminine sexuality. You gotta speak differently to different people, man.
He'll get through his bullshit 3rd wave feminist blockade and soon he and his girl will enjoy lots and lots of oral.
Does he find giving oral sex to a woman disrespectful to men? Giving your partner pleasure is something most people like to do, men and women both. The girl wanted to give him a blowjob, telling her she can't because it would be disrespectful to her is the real act of disrespect, treating her like she needs to be handled with care and can't enjoy giving pleasure to a partner. A lot of girls really enjoy giving blowjobs. As long as she wants to do it and nobody is pressuring her into it, it's all good.
I won't allow it either. To me it feels demeaning in the worst way. Not that its not enjoyable but I'd much rather be giving the pleasure than receiving it during oral. I also don't like how it causes gagging. Plus its painful for women. A no no in my book
I can understand the reasoning. Before I read the description I thought for a moment you were gonna say he had a fear his dick would be bitten off lol.