My friend is trying to blackmail me

One of my friends all of a sudden tried to cut off all of my ways to interact to her. After that I found a old chat group on Facebook and asked her why. All she said was 'because.' So I ended up guessing. It was because in a chat group between both of us I said 'Hi' everyday. After that I begged her to let me talk to her not through that chat group, with two or three other people and she just stopped responding. After a while she responded with give me money for me to uncut all of the communications. What should I do?

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Comments ( 21 )
  • nikkiclaire

    There are billions of people in the world. Move on and forget this bitch.

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  • Boojum

    Her saying, "Because," when you ask her to explain her actions indicates that either she's extremely immature and incapable of expressing her feelings, or there is no reason, and she's messing with your head.

    Unfortunately, some people are like that, and you have to accept that she's not going to justify her actions. The problem here is her, not you, and trying to figure out what's going on is just torturing yourself. Which is quite likely what she wants.

    You can't make her change her behaviour, but you do have a choice: either continue to play her childish games, or recognise that she really wasn't much of a friend at all and move on.

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  • McBean

    That's not blackmail. That's entrapment for a false accusation of extortion against you in the future. She's too passive aggressive to ask you to leave, so she is playing this dangerous game instead. Just stay away from her.

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  • Ellenna

    That's not blackmail (check the dictionary) but it's immature and manipulative: stay away from her and people like her, they're not worth the trouble and they get off on other people's pain and confusion

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  • Lemblue

    No offense but you should get a life!! Fuck her.

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    • lordofopinions

      Literally?

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      • Lemblue

        No fuck her as in she’s shady and you need to leave her alone!

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        • IrishPotato

          You're a disgusting paedophile.

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  • Iszzy123

    I’ll be ur friend

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    • RadioActiveSeaMan333

      πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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      • Iszzy123

        Is that a no?😒

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  • lordofopinions

    She is super toxic. Stay away and stop all communication. If she tries to communicate with you don't take the bait. Just ignore her and don't respond.

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  • curious-bunny

    So not blackmail man.

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  • megadriver

    Move on. Tho if she is willing to give you money to leave her alone, take the money and move on with your life.

    If anyone suddenly cuts all ties like that, something ain't right.

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  • RoseIsabella

    Oops, wait a minute I just reread your post, dude.

    "It was because in a chat group between both of us I said 'Hi' everyday. After that I begged her to let me talk to her not through that chat group, with two or three other people and she just stopped."

    It sounds like you spooked her, dude. Why on Earth would you beg her to let you talk to her outside of the group? When someone says no you need to accept it. Begging someone is a great way to scare people, and creep them out.

    I dunno about all this business about money. Just forget about her, and leave her the Hell alone!

    I can't recall a single time in my life that telling someone who continuously harassed, nagged and begged me to say yes to anything has turned out as less than awful.

    Honestly, I think you just really spooked her bigtime.

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    • Namer25

      I know her in real life. That was the last chat group thingy that she was in with me.

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      • RoseIsabella

        That's weird.

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  • IrishPotato

    Stay the hell away from that psycho.

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  • RoseIsabella

    She has problems with being unable to communicate and it's hella weird that she can't tell you what is up with her. However, I think you should just leave her alone. She's not worth all the trouble, but I can understand your frustration with her inability, and unwillingness to explain why she doesn't want to have anything to do with you anymore.

    Have the two of you had any disagreements, or was there as my sort of incident or episode that occurred before all of this started?

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    • Namer25

      No.

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      • RoseIsabella

        Maybe you have some mutual friends and or acquaintances who could perhaps shed some light on the issue? You could ask them, but only ask them once or twice, don't pester them if they don't want to talk about it or can't give an answer that satisfies your curiosity.

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