My friend is starting to be two faced.

I'm hanging around with my best friend and to be honest I really am starting to slink her down to more of someone I know rather then a friend. She's around adults more when she was growing up and she thinks she's more mature then me. And that's not all.

1) I apparently make a great Goth, because I enjoy "dark things", she doesn’t know me at all, because I write and draw something that have very strange meanings that go over her head. I do have some gothic art work because it's very imaginative and I like vampires.

2) She thinks Girls Aloud (though I have nothing against it) is pure heavy metal. I am a fan of Led Zeppelin, Metallica, Ozzy, Guns n’ Roses and KISS (wells that’s my classic CDS) and I find it insulting that she’s trying to take something that’s means a lot to me and mix it into something that is the exact opposite. Though the first time I though it was cute that she tried to rock out with me to KISS, the idea became boring after a while and annoying.

3) She’s leaving me behind, and hangs out with her older brother's friends (he isn't happy too) she hangs out with them and she told me to “get lost� when I asked her what time it was and I left. I am worried that she’s going to fall into the wrong crowd since in she's in her late teens and early twenties and there late twenties to early thirtys. But what really gets me is that she tells me in a really perky voice on the phone “Hey Katie how are you doing!� like nothing happened and I still very upset.

Though I’m starting to get used to having fun on my own (you know watching movies, reading, writing and practising guitar) and I fear that she could starting doing drugs or worse. I really an trying to get her to leave me alone if she’s going to act like this.

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  • PoWHaRdCoReBaNg

    Dont worry... this same thing is happening to me and i absolutely hate it bc she tells me im her bff and she doesnt even call me anymore like she used to... (we would tlk on the phone for hoouuurrrrsss), me or txt me back, hang out with me at school.... its b.s. and she talks to this other girl which she seems lk shes closer to her than i am to her... and she talks about a lot of ppl behind their backs... she even tlks about her other friends.... im scared shes telling every1 my secrets or telling them bad stuff about me... so its just normal i guess for bitches to invade this planet

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    • sugared_lilac

      Going through simillar myself. Only just caught my so-called best friend talking about me on one of her stupid internet pages saying all kinds of bad things about me behind my back, even about my relationship with her cousin (my fiancee) none of it is true. Were both planning our weddings and shes accused me of copying her stuff when I havent and twisted things on there to make me look bad, she claims I've bought the exact same stuff as her when I haven't but there are worse things said on there than that, My family and my partner know the truth thats the main thing, we have spoken since she was caught out, she seems to act like normal around me now but I'm worried she will do this again, if she does I will have to cut ties, I'm surprised that I havent already done that to be honest. So I know how you feel exactly about the whole two faced issue. I'm not the onyl one she talks about either shes always having a go at other people behind their backs and usually moans to me about them guess it was inevitable that she'd do the same to me to eh?

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  • pinkfingers

    you deserve a better friend than her.

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  • MermaidPrincess

    You seem to have grown apart, and that's normal. You may just have to dumb your friend. Whether you do the cut humanely or not is up to you. It happens to everyone.

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  • Sounds like your going in different directions thats all she has different influences in her life so just drift apart naturally this happens nothing to worry about

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  • Terence_the_viking

    Sorry for your loss. I know how it feels to lose a friend i lost my mustard once i was very upset no one could console me.

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  • EAT_IT

    I can relate to this just like I can relate to one of my favourite sandwiches:

    Firstly I'll take two slices of bread, then proceed to fry an egg, melt some cheese and then slowly eat it with a pint of Pepsi.

    Both sides of the bread that you use should be precious but if there is mould on it then it needs to go in the bin.

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  • Sounds like a parting of the ways. But wait & see & look after yourself.

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  • MermaidPrincess

    ^ I meant to type dump*, not dumb -.-;;;

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  • cabinet7O

    lol

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    • Well I must say Im honoured someone wants my name that badly but this has been done before you wont last long LOL I am the original

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      • cabinet7O

        It just feels so damned good, if you know what I mean-You are SO lucky to be who you are, cabinet- because you're witty wise and handsome-so maybe if i pretend to be you for a week or two I can become some of those things :-)

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        • spamjaveIin

          the above reply's for you, you sick little wanker.

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  • spamjaveIin

    don't work flikr, youre gonna make another best friend soon.

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  • WhiteWave

    she sounds like a cunt.
    she's just using you when she feels like it.
    go get new friends and if she comes crying to you that her 'cool' friends have ditched her tell her to fuck off.
    x

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  • ven067

    We have to make choices, she made hers and now you have to make yours.
    Forget about her.

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  • PodunkyMonkey

    ditch the bitch!

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  • spamjaveIin

    Holy shyte on a stick, man. Could you possibly be gayer? why not get on with your life and stop being a total c0ck.

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