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So I found out that before me and my girlfriend got together she and my friend dry humped until he cum. I feel like this should bother me, should it? Because to tell the truth this actually turns me on but is that normal to be turned on by it?
It happened before you and her were an item. If you think there's a risk of a repeat performance or more happening between the two of them, then fair enough: this is something worth pondering. But generally speaking, I believe that we shouldn't worry too much about what current partners did in the past. Once you get to a certain age, almost everyone has some sort of history. If someone you're close to has an ex who's psycho, then that's worth knowing about. If something horrible happened with a partner's ex, that can be useful to know since it can help you understand a person's behaviour and responses to things you do and say. But otherwise, leave the past alone, focus on where you are today and where you're heading for.
As for why you find this arousing, there could be several things going on there. Lots of guys are so insanely jealous (which is just another term for profoundly insecure) that they would dump the girl or do something to punish the friend. Maybe you just like the fact that you're with a girl who's so hot that she can make a guy do that (however, it has to be said that some guys - particularly teens - have such a hair-trigger that it really doesn't take much to cause a detonation).
There is another possible explanation which involves evolutionary biology, but that's fairly complicated.
Depending on what turn you on? That your girl is hot and sexy enough for a man to cum in is pant or you turn on that your friend cum? Either way ya'll need to get together and work that shit out,then you will know what turn you on!!!
If it was one of my friends, I'd smash his face in and then we won't be friends anymore.
Not normal, confront your "friend", protect your girl. Real friends don't do shit like this.