My friend abuses me iin?

Does it feel normal?

Find other friends, shes obviously not a very good one

IIN that I hate IIN Management for approving this post which clearly doesn't apply to the guidelines, and reject others that apply to all their guidelines?

Well first, lots of people don't like being squirted, so don't do that shit. Second, she's not your fucking friend is she? She hates you! GET NEW FRIENDS!

Hiya,

Thanks to this website and some off-colour comments by an acquaintance regarding the union betwixt me and The One Who Can Do No Wrong, I’ve found out and pretty much come to terms with the fact I'm the same way as you occasionally, but I’d never tell anyone unless I needed to.

I'm wondering if you told this so-called friend of yours. It's a good idea to be careful what you say, whether it's to her or not – you may change your mind, and people don't forget what you've said –- it often does more harm than good.

A dear friend of mine, sadly no longer with us, once said “never write anything down that you might regret........ open mouth, insert foot.” That could apply to telling people things too, I suppose.

Gouge out her eyes with an ice cream scooper, and replace them with cadbury eggs. That will ensure that her family gets a good snack when they find her.

Get new friends. My vest friend of 7 years was like that & eventually I had too move away because she got that bad :/ x

any one that abuses you is not right. and she isn't a good friend if she's threatening you. i hope she stops, or you notice that she's not worth being friends with!

Leave her.

Hiya,

You don't need us to tell you it's not normal.

Someone I once knew – I can't call them a friend because they weren't – was very similar. She'd be nice one minute, then nasty. It was like flicking a switch. I have behavioural problems too, but mine were nowhere near as bad.

One of the things this girl did was to throw my CDs about. That wasn't the worst. I'm actually grateful to her in a funny way because I realised I wouldn't have missed said CDs if she'd destroyed them -- so they obviously weren't that important or that great. That led me back to my real favourites, who thankfully she'd never heard of, so I don't associate them with her.

Hum. Can you say, regardless of your situation, that abuses is normal?

No, its not.

And you just wrote it in your title.
If you consider this bitch as a friend, we have bigger problem.

How can you call that a ''friend'' ?

I think you should slap the shit out of this bitch tbh.

i don't think you should be friends with a girl like that she souds mean.

You really need to bring this out into the open and probably the best thing to do is to joke about it to either your mom or hers - in front of her!

For example, "Oh Mom, it was so funny today in the park. When I splashed on water on (Nasty Knickers) she threatened to beat me up."

Your mom will be like, "Whhhaaaatttt? It wouldn't take you (Nasty Knickers) to put your hand on my daughter!!"

Let her touch you after a parent has warned her and she knows the consequences!

Always bring bullying into the open.

That's not a friend. You need to get that skank out of your life for your own good.

I would ditch that bitch in about two seconds. End of story and end of problem.

Sounds like you have a fetish for being dominated perhaps?

Anyone who abuses you in any way is not your friend. Don't hang out with her. Find some friends who actually care about you.

Well she isn't a friend at all then is she? Think about it.. you're allowing her to be a bitch to you so either ditch her or stop being a whiney bitch.

So.....why were you spraying water at her? Spray water at me mother fucker and I'll kill you!

Sounds like a really good friend you got there.

Just a bully praying on your good nature, she thinks its a weakness, is probably insecure and using this thuggish behaviour as a means to make her feel good about her self, stand firm one time and watch her crumble, in the case of her backing off, make sure you don't get a power trip from that, thus turning into a bully yourself.

You're in a abusive relationship. Continue to stay friends with her and it will only get worse. Tell someone about the abuse. Get a restraining order if needed. Act swiftly!

how in the hell is she your friend if she hurts hell im bi to and im a girl but i sure as hell dont let people hit me if anything they fear me and im like 5 feet tall im littler then everybody shoo if i were you i would get somebody to fight for me and kick that a** dont let them beat on you if anything being bi might not be the best choice in the world but it never makes you unperfect.

Sounds ok

Thats loook normal to you but not for me..

It's not normal for a friend to abuse you. It's not normal for anyone to abuse you. That sort of abusive relationship isn't nice and is against the human rights. If you want to stay friends with her (which I think you shouldn't but it's really your decision) then you should listen and stop annoying her when she says stop. If you tell her to stop threatening you and she keeps threatening you, she's no friend of yours.

I know you're scared, and maybe don't know how to deal with this, but you've got to be brave and stand up for yourself for once. Don't let her bully you because nobody has the right to bully you.

Threatening people is wrong and she's threatening you which is wrong. You should leave the relationship if you're able to. Talk to someone who can look out for you, someone you can trust and turn to when she does hurt you. Be aware of her reactions and take note of the body language cues when she's about to threaten you or about to strike. Does she get tense just before she threatens you? Does she curl her fists or make angry faces? Be ready to avoid getting hurt if you can.

And maybe, when it's safe and she's calm, suggest to her gently that she could talk to someone (like a teacher or a person who would listen. Maybe talk to you?) about her feelings too. I'd imagine that she has lots of stuff going on that needs dealing with and someone to understand her and guide her to know that there are other ways to deal with anger without resorting to physical, emotional, and verbal abuse.

I wish you the best of luck. Be safe.

Good friend you have there friends usually beat each other up and threaten each other... NOT...

You don't believe in violence? But...but...how do you threaten people?