My first tinder match

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I'm a 20 year old male, and I technically never had a girlfriend(or sex if that's important). Girls have told me I was attractive, I've had stalkers, I even almost had a girlfriend once ,but she was forced to move away. I went on a date one time, that's pretty much all the experience I have. I've always just went with the flow in life and never really worried about going out there and trying to get girls, I always just did my own thing(I basically lived under a rock) until recently I turned 20 and decided to come out from underneath my rock and I decided to make a Tinder. 4 days later(today) I got my first match and I think she looks pretty enough to consider. I just wouldn't know how to start the conversation or anything, I just feel REALLY awkward doing this sort of thing, especially online dating. Also, if this is important information, No I'm not on there for hook ups , I want a relationship...

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  • nikkiclaire
    5 years ago

    Just be yourself. You are both probably looking for the same thing. Love and romance. Good for you. Be open, kind and honest with her and she will most likely enjoy that.

    Thats great.

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    • IrishPotato
      5 years ago

      And so was this one..

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      • Hardinawetdiaper
        5 years ago

        How are nikkiclaire's comments downvoted??

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        • lordofopinions
          5 years ago

          Yeah really. I thought it was good advice.

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          • Hardinawetdiaper
            5 years ago

            It is

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        • nikkiclaire
          5 years ago

          I have haters 😂😂😂

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          • Hardinawetdiaper
            5 years ago

            Ah well I don't hate you 😘

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        • IrishPotato
          5 years ago

          They were before.

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          • Hardinawetdiaper
            5 years ago

            Oh

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        • IrishPotato
          5 years ago

          No clue.

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          • Hardinawetdiaper
            5 years ago

            Kk?

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  • nikkiclaire
    5 years ago

    Everyone feels awkward. Tell her that and it will give you both a laugh and relieve the tension. Its human nature to be awkward in these situations and perfectly normal

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    • IrishPotato
      5 years ago

      Why was this downvoted?

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      • lordofopinions
        5 years ago

        Some idiot with a heart of stone and the IQ of a houseplant.

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  • curious-bunny
    5 years ago

    Well you should read her bio instead of just her picture. But yea be yourself man and youll do fine

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    5 years ago

    Thanks guys I'll try. I don't know who downvoted nikkis comments, I found them quite helpful.

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    • Hardinawetdiaper
      5 years ago

      Well that's nice

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  • IrishPotato
    5 years ago

    You two are possibly looking for the same thing so there's strange about that. Just be yourself, and hell, telling her you feel a little awkward might break the ice.

    I met a girl on Tinder once. Pretty attractive but really strange. Instead of finding people that were vegan already, she tried to make me into one.

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