My first time was really painful.
me and my boyfriend hadn't been going out long, but i had already told everyone and i mean everyone that i had already had sex with a few people, but when i got intermate with my boyfriend, he also though i had had sex before with numerous people, we tried to have sex but it didn't work and i was in so much pain and wanted to stop, i told him it hurt, so he went slower, and it didn't get better, it only lasted a minute or so, does that count as loosing my virginity? and is it normal to hurt so much?