My fiance stripped on her hen night and i cant get over it

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My fiance went on a med holiday weekend away with her friends on a girls weekend for her hen night and I later found out that she had stripped and performed a sex act on stage with a guy in a night club.
I have tried to forget it and put it down to hen night fun, but the thought of her with another man is eating me up.
Should I just get over it or confront her with it.

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  • MR.mr
    6 years ago

    get over it? wtf she cheated on you!

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  • Anonfolk
    6 years ago

    Bro, it's cheating. Your hurt feelings are totally natural and justified. Do not feel bad. She should be ashamed!

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  • dicka912
    6 years ago

    She is not married to you. Even if she was, she my want to do things like this from time-to-time. You have to accept it, or move on with someone else.

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  • Iwpimm
    6 years ago

    Everyone already said it but figured I'd add on..

    How does "HEN NIGHT" equal breaking the barriers of trust and exclusivity that you share by being in a committed relationship?

    If she were to decide to be with you and commit herself to you and did not agree to an open relationship, then the fact that she'd even pretend to be sexual with someone else is a problem.

    Will you truly ever move on and feel confident on your relationship or trust in her? She showed you her true character and lack of Morales. It'd hurt like crazy but I'd say goodbye to such a sleezy women. Good luck friend, sorry you're hurting.

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  • aaaa1234
    6 years ago

    Dude, everyone likes to have sex with someone other than their bf/gf once in a while. You should accept that. You are being an asshole by expecting your girlfriend to be committed to you.
    Your gf had sex with another guy NEVER means that she doesn't love you anymore.

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  • KevinP
    6 years ago

    You'll never forget it.. you can MAYBE get used to it.. but with my experience it will always eat at you.

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  • normal-1
    6 years ago

    She cheated on you while you were engaged. She won't change after you are married. You have had a glimpse of your future. Take heed. Bow out.

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  • nikkiclaire
    6 years ago

    You should do both. Confront her and let her know your Feelings and make sure you are both on the same page in regards to relationship limits.

    If satisfied get over it. If not, cut ties and move on before you marry her.

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  • pimpjuicy
    6 years ago

    I used to worry about stuff like that until I convinced my girlfriend to bring home another guy to fuck her. I didn't get jealous anymore after that

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    • nikkiclaire
      6 years ago

      Are you saying he should watch her pull a train at home?

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      • pimpjuicy
        6 years ago

        Either that or he should have a threesome with her and another guy. Once you realise the world won't end because your girl fucked someone else, you stop worrying about being cheated on. It worked for me

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