My father is control me

i'm 26 and live with my father i have been diagnosis with schizophrenia and social anxiety i dont talk to no one and mind my own business.

my father drinks like 4 40's a day and a pack of ciggs a day and he act a fool start talking negative about eveything saying things like he getting tired of me living here and stuff he buy sex from women witch i never have done in my life.

i get so tired of listeing to him everytime he wants something he call my name over and over and over and over till i come if i dont come he get's mad about it and the things he have done in his was bad he use to do crack and everything and talk about the women he had fun with in his past really i dont care i just want to leave and be able to control my own life with him telling me what to do and when to do it and if i dont he get's mad and start talking about kicking me out knowing i have social problems i cant surive with social problems.

i know i'm 26 and yes this is sad but damn i wish i would of killed my self years ago really i do.

its not only him but my whole family he gossip about what i do and everything to everyone and i feel like i cant live my life the way i want to and he been doing this for years sense i was young.

my brother and sister and mother hate him cause he ruin my mother so badly now she talking to her self even when i call her she talk to her self.

i'm trying to get a solo job so i can move out and stay away from him for the rest of my remaing life.

now tell me this how is a person sapose to grow if no one teach them how am i sapose to konw if no one teach me when i was younger and yet sense i'm older and have only little no one well teach me i feel dead inside.

i had friends with father's who would teach them how to get women and why and would teach them the important's of life no one in my life never teach me anything are tell me anything just want to control me how sick are these people.

well i said enough.

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  • TrustMeImLying

    Sorry to hear, bud. It is definitely not normal. And it's not you.

    It seems like your mum/sisters live separately? The ideal situation would be to get a job and move out but until that works you could even consider staying at your mum's or sister's.

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    • my sister is just like my father a cntrol m mum is in another state

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  • my family dont help me and dont teach me anything they just hate on me and gossip and dont tell me the truth they do the oppisite of what a family saposed to do.

    do i got a sick family are is it just me that's sick but really i think i'm sick cause of my family.

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    • your family isn't normal. try to get your own income and leave.

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      • my father just was trying to find the remote to the tv right and guess where it was in the piss bucket where he pissed in what do you think about that

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        • That's pretty fucking bad. I have a friend who pisses in his room too. It's pathetic.

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  • Nokiot9

    Try to get out. Focus on the things and people that make you happy. Try to make some new friends maybe. Or tell ur dad you aren't his slave just because you are staying there. And move out asap. It doesn't sound like living there is really good for u. But then again, living alone might not be the best thing for you either if you are as depressed as you sound. See if you can find someone to talk to. Maybe a therapist. Hell... send me a message and I'll talk to ya. Just don't kill yourself. There's so much life can offer. Sometimes you just get bogged down and focus on the negative and it seems like a black hole. But there is always a way out. And it doesn't involve a Copper jacketed midnight snack.

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    • thank you so much.

      and i'm sorry it took me over 2 weeks to reply i forgot i had this account but i'm still here.

      thanks for your hospitality.

      people beat me up cause of my life they dig in my life and tell me what to do i get tired of that.

      i hate society so much it makes me sick but then again i need to find a way to look past all of this to better my self

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  • kelili

    That's not a life.

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    • then what is a life?

      u answer i would love more info on your perspective so i can help myself.

      now in society if your not having sex then you don't have a life that's what i was told witch i don't agree with.

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  • and he treat stranger's better then he treat me.

    and not to mention my sex life suck so badly all these girls
    and women,shacking there ass at me and they look so beautiful and i know they want me but i reject them all and i think cause of this i'm considered stupid to guys i think they think i'm stupid and they don't understand they act like they know me when they don't i have personal issues with sex.

    besides i reject all female's and this been going on for over a year and now i think i'm freaking them out.

    cause so many girls try to talk to me but i don't talk to them my father freak out one time like why don't i get a girlfriend really i don't want a girlfriend i chooses that even tho i know why and i'm not happy with that chose but i have to deal with it.

    i have sexual urges and i want some sex from a female just i never expressed my sexuality that much even with stranger' like most people do i don't go to the club are go out there looking for someone and i don't talk to no one. i just stay home masterbate over porn and keep to my self, and really i don't feel good about this my body saying to have sex my mind telling me nothing.i'm sorry it takes two to have sex and i have problems trusting other's

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  • handsignals

    Shit troll OP, check out one of my masterpieces for insperation
    http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-for-me-and-my-mom-to-have-fist-fights-172389/

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