My ex started messaging my mom asking about me

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I know this shit isnt normal but has anyone else had an ex that was this desperate?

I literally blocked him on everything after he drunk called me 30+ times total and said many things such as "retard" "whore" "you look like a boy" "you're probably fucking your little brother" (ew) "go date your little faggot" and the best of all "I fucked a 34 year woman off of bumble,bitch". Then he starts begging me to come over because he "needs to see his baby" and he "loves me so much" etc etc. Anyways, yeah. Now hes messaging my mom on insta asking everything and anything about me.

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  • Cuntsiclestick
    5 years ago

    Assuming your mother is aware of all this, why hasn't she blocked him? His behavior is stalkerish and dangerous.

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    • strawberryfieldsforever
      5 years ago

      She thought she had him blocked before but shes new to instagram and had no idea so right after he messaged her I was like "mom please block him". This time I ACTUALLY did.

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  • sl33pysheepgirl
    5 years ago

    he is desperate there is no way around it,
    also sounds potentially dangerous.
    i recommend a restraining order.

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  • curious-bunny
    5 years ago

    File a restraining order. All you can do, don't shoot him. Not unless you can prove he was endangering your life. Anyways just file a restraining order, if he doesn't respect it you can pursue more fun fuck him over ways of blocking him

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  • leggs91200
    5 years ago

    If he knows where you live then blocking him on ever social media site on this planet won't keep him away.

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    • strawberryfieldsforever
      5 years ago

      I know, him showing up is my biggest fear. He called me again 3 times last night and used an old Instagram account to get in contact with my mom again... thinking just answering the phone and trying my best to get through to him to fuck off is the best bet. Ignoring is doing nothing clearly.

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      • leggs91200
        5 years ago

        Thing is, stalkers are creepy and annoying as god damn hell.

        I wish I had honest advice about how to deal with such a situation. Do you have any male friends , relatives, or whoever that could possibly "explain" to him that you wish not to be bothered? Maybe they could meet him after work or something.

        Usually men will jump in a heart beat to protect a woman that they care for.

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        • strawberryfieldsforever
          5 years ago

          I do, I had mentioned all of this to a friend of mine but the problem with that is that my friend wants to threaten him and I'm worried I could get in shit for giving out his phone number to anyone and he could use it against me.

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          • leggs91200
            5 years ago

            the man on your side doesn't have to make any calls, just perhaps a courtesy visit to the guy's job or something. Not his house if avoidable. If he lives in an apartment complex then it might be alright since an apartment is not the property of the renter. He could not tell your friend to leave the property.

            I do not believe anything would happen just cause you gave someone's phone number. Companies sell that info back and forth all the time. Besides, not like the cops would do shit. He may threaten but there isn't jack shit he could really do.

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  • SKDM007
    5 years ago

    call the police

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  • JD777
    5 years ago

    Exes can be creepy like that. Let your family and friends know he’s stalking you. Keep an image or recording of all his communications. Then ignore him and don’t let him get under your skin. Eventually he’ll get the message. If he starts to say scary things, let other people know and report it to the police.

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  • SmokeEverything
    5 years ago

    He wants to be your dad if he cant be your boyfriend. Is your mom hot? married? Think about it.

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    • strawberryfieldsforever
      5 years ago

      Ahah, oh God shes married 😂😂 I never thought of it that way though

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  • RoseIsabella
    5 years ago

    Yeah, it's hella weird for him to be contacting your mother. I think mom should block him too.

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  • kelili
    5 years ago

    Simply ask your mum to block him.

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  • Ummitsstillme
    5 years ago

    Stalky af

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