My ex is crazy-mad that i’m dating her ex, help

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Ok so I’m a 22 year old bi guy and I’ve been with my boyfriend Brandon (29) since November and we’re quarantining at his house. We have an ex in common, Amber (25) who I broke up with in September and he did like 3 years ago.

Amber left me for some ugly guy (37 or so?) and we stopped talking soon after but last week she randomly sent me a bunch of “I miss you/how are you/do you ever think of me?” messages. I gave short answers until she sent me a nude from the bath and I told her I have a boyfriend.

She must have stalked my insta because 2 minutes later the girl’s blowing up my phone saying “HOW COULD YOU DATE BRANDON THATS DISGUSTING HES A PIG”. She sent me a bunch of crying voice notes about how I was the only man she ever loved (lie) and said she wished she’d had a baby with me when we never discussed kids and I’m only 22, what the fuck.

I told her that’s insane and that I’m gonna date whoever I want but she said dating your ex’s ex is sick and called Brandon more names. She tried to call me a bunch of times but I didn’t pick up.

Is it normal for her to be so mad her exes are together? What should I do?

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  • FromTheSouthWeirdMan
    3 years ago

    Lol nothing about this is normal. She brought this om herself by dumping you. Welcome to the real world Amber where your actions have consequences. Also most girls that talk about having you babies are dangerous. She's admitted to trying to trap you. She will tell you "oh yeah cum in me im on birth control" when she aint on no damn birth control

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      3 years ago

      Yeah, I had a lucky escape looking back. She said she was “on the pill” but Jesus maybe she was trying to trap me all along? Fuck man.

      Perks of dating a guy is no bloody uterus to worry about.

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    • bbrown95
      3 years ago

      Sadly true about the lying about being on birth control part. I'm a girl and know several girls who have done this. It's sick.

      The girl one of my friends dated tried to say she was infertile and desperately tried to get him to sleep with her with no protection, but thank God he was smarter than that. The girl was also physically abusive on top of that.

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      • Anonymous Post Author
        3 years ago

        Nightmare fuel, honestly. Thank god your friend got himself out.

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        • bbrown95
          3 years ago

          Yes, I'm glad, too! She was really a psycho and extremely manipulative.

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      • FromTheSouthWeirdMan
        3 years ago

        My friend had a girlfriend where when he went to cum she would wrap her legs around him so he couldnt pull out. She would say in an argument "COLTON IM CARRYING YOUR BAAAABY!!!". Thank god she never got pregnant lol.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          3 years ago

          What a psycho.

          I’m gonna do the legs thing to Brandon though and scream I’m gonna have his baby. 😂😂

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  • CDmale4fem
    3 years ago

    When she sends you messages, ignore them or block her.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      3 years ago

      Yeah I muted her for a year on WhatsApp. Apparently she broke up with her old man bf which I suspect brought on her meltdown. Brandon thought it was funny until I pointed out that she probably tried to get preggers off him too.

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  • Tommythecaty
    3 years ago

    I used to love her but I had to kill her
    I used to love her, oh yeah but I had to kill her
    I had to put her six feet under
    And I can still hear her complain
    I used to love her, oh yeah but I had to kill her
    I used to love her, ooh yeah but I had to kill her
    I knew I'll miss her so I had to keep her
    She's buried right in my back yard

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      3 years ago

      Umm, I was *kinda* hoping it wasn’t gonna get to that point.

      Imagine that though, sitting on the settee sharing “stay indoors” and “Find Amber” posts whilst the body dissolves in the bath. I could be the next Netflix series.

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      • Tommythecaty
        3 years ago

        Noooo it’s for growing a nice garden duh

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          3 years ago

          To leave a body is to leave evidence though. As 2 of her ex-boyfriends we would be amongst the prime suspects.

          Not that I’m thinking about any of this 😶

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          • Tommythecaty
            3 years ago

            Not if you eat it all and poop it out as fertiliser

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  • Mammal-lover
    3 years ago

    Sounds like your lying about the ages but here we go. Its wrong to date your close friends ex. Outside of that date whoever you want to

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      3 years ago

      Ages are correct, I guess I just like older people. Also Amber is very immature for 25 but likes her older men (to the point where I find it kinda weird but that’s not the point).

      I wouldn’t call Amber a close friend anymore, we barely spoke for months and now she’s spamming me. You’re saying her reaction isn’t normal?

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