My ex boyfriend is very hateful for no reason

We were high school sweethearts for 3 years and we broke up a few weeks ago. I wanted to stay friends, so one day he'd be all nice and normal then the next day he'd say he'd "been thinking" then go CRAZY and now I'm blocked on everything. I didn't do anything and I was nice to him. He just suddenly would became an asshole. Why?

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  • FocoUS

    He's an ass. He has reasons but they're not good ones.

    He might still have feelings. 3 years? Of course he still has feelings. He's might be angry that he has feelings and that you don't, like you let him down.

    He's probably accustomed to special treatment from you and isn't comfortable with anything less. You're not alone in this. I think you need more space. Months of space.

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  • Boredbastard

    he's an asshat.

    are you american?
    is he a douche jock like on all the american tv-shows? ;D

    how old are you?
    but meh, he's an asshole.

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    • Animosity

      Lol yeah, and no.. He was something different, very naive, sweet, hateful when he thought it was necessary but it often wasn't.. But there are better things in store for us both I guess. I'm 18 now.

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  • Animosity

    Thanks so much for the feedback guys! It's reassuring. We went through so much together and I don't want to just cut him out of my life like that. I go back to school in about a month though and I'll have to see him there, so I guess maybe I just shouldn't try talking to him until later in the year or something.

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  • sounds like he is taking it badly thats obvious

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  • BoredGuy

    hey, why dump him and still wanna be in touch him? he is handling almost perfectly and i say almost cause one day he may talk to you again altho he shouldnt

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    • Animosity

      He dumped me by the way, BoredGuy.

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      • BoredGuy

        He got a new jealous gf?

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        • Animosity

          Yeah, maybe. He had some rebounds that people would tell me about and now he's single. It's been almost a year and I have a new boyfriend as well (of 5 months). Just one of those things I guess.

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  • joybird

    Absolutely agree! He's hurting and you can't be friends until he gets over it. Stay away from him and give him a break for at least 3 months. Apparently, statistics state it takes the average person 13 weeks to get over a break up.

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