My daughter is overly obsessive with people at 17

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My daughter, 17, and her boyfriend of two years broke up during the winter. Since then, she has had two potential boyfrieds, but became quickly obsessed with both and scared them away. She has also pushed several of her friends away in this manner. She over texts, twitters, and seems to fall blindlessly head-over-heels. She makes excellent grades, has an outgoing personality, is a cheerleader captain, and is extremely involved in school i.e. national honor society, student counsil, etc, etc. A a young teen, she went through a short self-mutilation period (cutting herself)which is part of the reason for my intense concern. Is this normal? Should I intervene and get her help?

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  • Freedom_
    10 years ago

    Take her camping and get to know her better.

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  • Avant-Garde
    10 years ago

    She really needs to see a therapist.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    Therapy could help. Telling her not to be a super clinger anyone would help. Does she know her obsessive behaviour is causing her to lose everyone?

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  • TwoThumbs
    10 years ago

    I mean...sounds like she has some issues just relaxing. Anxiety Disorder? I believe self mutilation falls in that category. Maybe get her in therapy?

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  • Lissisbliss
    10 years ago

    She sounds just like me in some ways :/

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  • Mersaphe
    10 years ago

    It's normal for an attention wh0re.

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  • InsertUsername
    10 years ago

    I'm very similar to this. She needs to understand that to be with someone, you need to be perfectly happy on your own first. She may feel this clinginess because of a NEED to be with someone to make her complete.

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  • canadasucks
    10 years ago

    I'm glad it worked out. That's great. But I have to wonder...are you not giving her enough attention perhaps? Usually when young people behave this way it's because those who are close to them are too busy to hang out with them. These actions may be a result of her looking for attention.

    Just my thoughts...good luck.

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    • halfemptyhalffull
      10 years ago

      I agree. She craves attention and acceptance.
      You, as a parent, giving more of your time , being a listener , showing interest would help

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  • lovetolaugh
    10 years ago

    Thank you all for extending your thoughts and forwarding encouraging words. As it turns out, radar was almost dead on. She is better today, and it appears that I was the one that overreacted to the sitution. The world has changed so much since I was a teenager!!!

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  • Nev@HM!nD13
    10 years ago

    You and your daughter should talk about this one, or else it would be worse without even noticing.

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  • JohnTrollinski
    10 years ago

    Stop voting normal you morons.

    Of course it's not normal to be a complete and utter physco

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    • canadasucks
      10 years ago

      Who's the moron here? It isn't us. For one, you can't spell and two - if you think this is psycho(proper spelling), behavior then you live a pretty sheltered life. This is quite normal behavior for young girls looking for attention these days.

      Might be time to crawl out from under your rock dude.

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      • JohnTrollinski
        10 years ago

        Oh, because I don't get SO obsessed with people they run away, I live a sheltered life? or are you just a stalker? If you are a stalker, you're a pretty shitty one as it appears you're stalking the wrong person.

        I go out on the pull pretty much every Friday and Saturday night with the LADS, I play soccer and I have a nicely paid job which I enjoy and I have a holiday in Ibiza booked for the summer.

        If that's sheltered, then I am thoroughly enjoying my sheltered life. Duuuuuuuuude

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        • canadasucks
          10 years ago

          With the LADS huh? Hmmm. Yeah thought so.

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          • JohnTrollinski
            10 years ago

            Oh sorry.

            I forgot some people don't have friends

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            • canadasucks
              10 years ago

              Not the kind of friends you're talking about pal. Such an internet tough guy, aren't we? If we met in real life you'd be running like a little bitch. I guarantee it. You have NO idea who you're fucking with boy.

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