My daughter flirts with my dates. iin

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Im 36 y/o and I have a sixteen year old daughter and I split with her Father a year or so ago and for the last few months I have been meeting guys on dating sites. I've met a few guys who I've gone on to date, although not seriously but the thing is that my daughter flirts with them whenever I bring them home.
for example, if I leave her in the living room with the guy, I come back to find her, feet up and cuddled up to him on the sofa, or she'll do something sexually suggestive in the way she acts or dresses.

Ive asked her about it and she tells me to lighten up. as she's just being friendly. Is it normal for her to act this way as she's not a wild child or anything like that.

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  • RoseIsabella
    6 years ago

    That's completely inappropriate.

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  • dicka912
    6 years ago

    She is looking to replace her father. She would and will do anything to replace him including going to bed with your boyfriends.

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  • barrysbigbeanbag
    6 years ago

    She wants cock!

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  • dirtybirdy
    6 years ago

    It's not her, it's you, you fool of a (possible) troll. You shouldn't be bringing any ol'dude around. Not until you're serious with him anyway. Just my opinion. Your business is your business. No need to let the kid see you going from guy to guy. Sheesh.

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  • SpookyPancake
    6 years ago

    Hormones be crazy at that age

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  • Justmehere
    6 years ago

    It happens. I dated a very nice, professional woman who had a drop-dead gorgeous, model-looking 17 year old daughter. Have to say, wow, this girl was smoking hot. Was at their house one weekend, and the girl came downstairs as her mom was in the bathroom. Girl had on tiny, short-shorts and a sexy little white top. Hugs me hello and we start chatting, waiting for mom to present herself (please).

    I sat on the couch, then, boom..She plops herself next to me and swings her legs over mine. "My couch!" she joked. I admit to feeling her legs, almost instinctively, but not wanting the woman I was dating to catch me/us. Girl then moved just before mom showed up.

    Apparently, this happens more than I was told, as woman asked me with a cute smile "Was my lovely girl all over you? You're face is red..It's ok, she does that all the time". As much as my mind was flying with possibilities, I kept my mouth shut.

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  • CreamPuffs
    6 years ago

    Even if she isn't a wild child she still has hormones giving her an urge to be a little perv with the males you bring home. She needs to learn a little maturity and get boys her own age who AREN'T dating somebody else. "just being friendly" yeah right. That's certainly not normal and you need to be more firm with her to make her cut it out.

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  • Tealights
    6 years ago

    Yeah, she's a teenager. Her hormones are everywhere, her father figure is gone (he probably wasn't much of one when he was around anyway if she's acting like this), and it's typical for younger women to like older men at that age (and what older guy would say no to that?).

    It's best to invite the guys over when your daughter isn't around, and see if they're the type to not take advantage of your immature daughter; because she knows what she's doing and competing with you (like a typical girl, we've all done it in someway before we grown up).

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    • cath77
      6 years ago

      My husband was a good Father to her and was better at controlling my daughter. I tend to avoid putting too many controls on her but things are worse that I put in the original post. I'm pretty sure that she met and slept with one particular guy after I broke up with him and there was an occasion when i came back from getting some wine and as I came in the door, the guy came out of her room and when I went to see her, she'd locked the door and wouldn't speak to me, when something had obviously gone on between them.
      i'm really worried and I thought that maybe she's punishing me for seeing other guys after me and my husband split up, but maybe it is just hormones and she's competing with me.

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      • Tealights
        6 years ago

        You need to calmly talk to her. Not in a, "Listen here young lady," but more in a, "What's going on? You're a smart girl, too smart for these old men. Am I doing something to upset you? Is me dating again weird?"

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  • wtrackerman
    6 years ago

    See Valley Girl with Nicko Cage

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  • mrydan28
    6 years ago

    Want to go out sometime?

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  • luke303
    6 years ago

    Dress sexier and if she wants to compete then show her how its done. Out-compete her.

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  • hellokitty45
    6 years ago

    It's definitely a daddy issue + hormones type of thing. I do similar things, its the replacement and the attention thats craved. but anyway you should try to talk to her in a non scolding and non judgmental way and figure out the root of why she does this

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