My dad is obessed with me is that normal?

i think its creepy that he had a dream about making out with u..... that doesn't sound normal to me.

I think he loves you.

&^^%$ no. That is not normal. Your Dad needs some help.

To have that dream is one thing-- to tell you about it??? He is "throwing it out there" to see if you'll respond. BAD.

You didn't mention whether or not you look like your mother... He may be seeing a younger her.

He sounds like he likes young women, is sexually attracted to you, and really needs to grow up. He should know - common sense should dictate-- that he has crossed the line. I would tell him you will be changing your number if he calls you more than 3 times a week.

Dad or not, some men are just asses.

I had the same problem, and it made me feel very uncomfortable. If you can tell him that he is making you feel uncomfortable that might help him to realize that he needs to stop obsessing with you.
I know you don't want to make him feel bad, but he's making you feel bad and needs to know that.
Boundaries are important.

My dad made me angry because I was the one who had to set the boundaries and he should have known better than to make me have to do that.

Just know you aren't alone, and that it's not your fault.

he obviously wants to be close to u so just get him alone fuck him and be done with it

He obviously really cares about you. Like you said he's never attempted to do anything sexual. That's a good sign and means that you might be misinterpreting his innocent attachment to his daughter as perverted feelings.

I didnt grow up with my dad but he use to cry & tell me he loved me . Due to the fact my mom & he seperated 6 months after i was born but never did he make a pass or think about me in a sexual way . Thats sick & he really needs some help. Damn my dad was a big drinker but never that.
& Fuck the crazy incest bithch that told u to fuck him she needs mo help then all of us.

thats the opposide of my dad i still think he cares about me but i rarely hear from him

That doesn't sound normal to me and that dream. He could end up doing stuff to u. He might be a great dad to u but he still could end up doing something sexual...

Ummm! This is cute. I bet your dad is going through mid-life changes. He's more likely alone and lonely and discovered his own distance in reality relating to own existence. Don't reject him! That's bad news and can have serious psychological problems. This is about proper communication between you two and you stepping outside your world for a sec to help channel your dad back to him ol' self. Nothing wrong with being a big girl and supportive 'as we all eventually go through life changes.'

This sounds really complicated, and I think your dad needs professional help, and unfortunately, you are being deeply affected as well, so that means now you will need professional help to deal with it. It's his problem, but it is messing with you obviously. Go get some help.

Are you serious your dad is crazy.
The dream creeped me out alot and should creep you out to.
Once you're prepared to leave his house block him on your phone and go to different state and never talk to that incest, pedophile.
Texts you all the time
always says he loves you (dads always love their daughters though)
-had dream about you that you were making out.
Doesn't that creep the living shit out of you.
I fear for you that he is getting ready for a sexual offence, not to sound dark.
But your dad is fucked up and obsessed, you're his cocaine

...Although, the dream of him, making out wih you, scare's me, a bit...

He probably just misses you, and worrie's about you. I'm a dad, and I know how this stuff goes. (though I don't text my daughter AS much about "loving me") But I do text and call her a few time's a day. Maybe just sit down with him and have a talk and maybe just ask him for some space. He should understand.If not...Than I'm not really sure, Hope this helps! (somewhat, atleast..)

This worries me quite a lot....are you doing ok?
Your father is obviously having some problems, I'm not sure if they are involving you or more with his work/life, or possibly his girlfriends, financial?
Please be careful with this, you are his daughter, and of course you care about him so very deeply...feelings can become very intense.
I would suggest not being alone with him if he continues to mention his dreams of you, sexual in content or not.
If you are still in school, seek your counselor for advice.
Possibly a meeting with a psychiatrist or psychologist with both of you present, to find out what is happening in his life that you may not be aware of.
This seems to be more about him than about you at this point in time.
Just be aware, as I'm sure you are, that he is a man, and has feelings, needs and desires, and that he is your father as well. This can be overwhelming for some men in this position/situation.
He may be under intense pressure at work, with his personal life or having medical problems that you are not aware of.
Of course, it is inappropriate for him to bring up his fantasies, his dreams or any thoughts of you that may be sexual in nature.
I hope this was of some help to you.

Parent love. I would kill my dad if he was like that (too over the top). I like my dad the way he is.

My dad is just caring all about homework. He doesn't care when i date when i go back to my mom's (Yes my parents are divorced.) its all about homework... -_-

Yeah sounds like it is you who needs to gently set some limits & let him know how his behaviour is affecting you. Is there something that happened that has traumatized him & made him fearful of losing you or something?

Maybe he just worrys about u alot i mean i dont know much about dealing with dads because i dont get along with mine but thats beside the point hes ether worrys about u or theres something more there but u could always ask him y he does it