My dad has always tried to touch me

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Hey guys. I wasn't sure where to turn for this issue, so I decided to post here as a last resort. From what I've read, there's a shitload of trolls here, but this is my true story. I promise.

So I'm Emily R, I model and I'm big on social media but I'll not specify where, and I kinda have daddy issues. It pains me so much to even have to say this, but I think my dad is attracted to me. We're very close.

He has always looked at me strangely, since I was age 16, I believe. He's told me how pretty I am. I thought it was just, you know, support for my 16-year-old dreams of becoming a big model in the industry.

That all changed sometime in late July when I was walking through the house looking for my phone. I was about to go ask when I heard him JERKING OFF in his room. (You know, the slapping sounds and heavy breathing??) Oh God, I can't believe I'm writing this. So I had advanced upon his door before I heard him, and he noticed me and immediately threw a blanket over his legs. He was sitting there shirtless with MY PHONE in his hand!!

I had always used my phone to take photos for my model portfolio, which included bikini shots and nude shots. My friends would help me set up the photo shoots in my room, my yard, etc AND MY PARENTS KNEW. So my DAD knew about the nude photos (which were for art students FYI).

I mean, he had to have been using those to masturbate to. Why would he have my phone otherwise??

I need your guys' advice. I've never told anyone, but I'm now 26 and he continues to look at me strangely. With modeling and all, I spend as much time as possible away from him, but it's all weighing on me. I turned to this because I can't have my rep ruined and I don't want to tell him I've let word get out about it. Help, please!

Avoid him for..ever? 3
Tell someone (but please. Who??) 6
Just let things take their course. It'll get better (?) 14
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  • mia500
    6 years ago

    I would tell a woman figure that is close to me. Just because he hasn't done anything to you doesn't mean he won't with other girls

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    • WhoIsNormalAroundHere
      6 years ago

      Amen.

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  • Nickvey
    6 years ago

    my guess is you dont want to fuck your dad and its obvious he wants to fuck you. see that's not so hard. you are an adult if you dont like it stop going to his house. get the fuck out. i see you as the problem here. you are just a sex toy to him and nothing else. you cant deal with that. too bad , you are what you are , a nude picture whore , you cant change it baby, your are just a cheap easy orgasm. you made that happen. keep taking those nude shots thats where the good money is at. thats what makes daddy happy.

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  • Qas21
    6 years ago

    I just have one question if you and your dad are close then does that mean you are attracted to him as well? and no I'm not making fun of you I just wanted to ask

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  • MR.mr
    6 years ago

    Ok Please listen I'll give you real advice.

    Do not tell anyone ever!
    Reasons why, one while creepy as fuck he hasn't actually done anything to you and this will ruin his life. No matter who you tell and what promises they make to keep it secret it will get arround eventually.
    Seriously this will ruin his life.
    Also while that's probably what he was doing with your phone you don't KNOW it.

    While he is probably attracted to you as long as he isn't doing anything to you I hate to say this but be careful and try to pretend you didn't see that

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  • happycat
    6 years ago

    As long as he doesn't come straight at you with sexual advances leave it alone. He might be freaking out about his attraction to you and doesn't know what to do. I saw my step daughter naked on accident and and told my wife when it happened, my wife's resopnse was well I hope she didn't see your hard on. I said whoa there was no sexual feelings on my end at all. Wife said well I figured she's so pretty and I wouldn't be mad because you can't help what gets you aroused.

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  • iamre321
    6 years ago

    Real dad or step dad, I just don't know what kind of dad would be attracted to their own daughter...

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  • Boojum
    6 years ago

    Hmmm...

    So your Daddy was supposedly whacking off to a picture of you in his bedroom WITH THE DOOR OPEN?

    This little detail suggests the question is fantasy or trolling. No intelligent man would masturbate with the door open when he knows the object of his illicit lust is at home.

    And you're seriously into modelling, but you use your PHONE for photo-shoots?

    Finally, you expect us to believe that a 26 year-old woman allowed her father to get hold of her phone. Every woman I know in her twenties has apparently had her phone surgically attached to her hand.

    Dude, I give you five out of ten. You need to to think through the scenario a little more if you want it to be believable.

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    • edwininthematrix
      6 years ago

      The way she wrote it, makes it seem like the phone incident happened when she was 16, ten years ago - "late July" 2007. however, this was around the time that the very first iPhone came out, and no smartphones existed before that. and you should know that flip phones had pretty terrible picture quality. also, if her friends were helping her arrange photoshoots in her room and backyard while she was starting out in the business and trying to get noticed as a model, it would make sense to use the newest technology available (at that time) like a smartphone. so I'm leaning towards the story being genuine.

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  • WhoIsNormalAroundHere
    6 years ago

    Here is an actual case that no one really bothered to talk about and it happens to kids.
    When I was younger, two kids were really loved by their mother. Everyone thought they were a normal family. However, when it got out that the mother was sexually touching her two kids, it ruined her life as people's perception of her changed. She believed she wasn't doing anything wrong and sure, we don't know what really happened.

    But here is the thing. Both sides are valid. The issue is that no one teaches a very important rule that is constantly shown in Game Of Thrones.

    LOVE YOURSELF FIRST. Understand your situation and think what is best for you. No one can give you the correct answer that everyone will agree on. Just think and get as much help as you can.

    That said, why do you use your phone for your modelling portfolio? Why don't you use a DSLR? You can get a cheap one for like 800USD and it can be very useful. Well unless you are using some phone do 4K resolution and etc.

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  • JonathanOo
    6 years ago

    You must be extremely attractive. Or You resemble your mom which he has great desire for? Either way it's unlikely his love for you will diminish. Distance is the only way to push past that awkwardness

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  • slave1
    6 years ago

    Tell the police.. he could rape you if he got the chance.. he's sick, and needs to be checked out. No sane father would like his child in that way

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