My dad didn't teach me how to get women, is that normal?

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I'm a 20 year old man and I recently learned correctly how to get a girlfriend from the internet such as flirting, confidence, body language, approach, keeping conversations going, asking her out correctly, and so on. I just recently got my first job so now it is possible for me to get girlfriend. The question is why my father didn't teach me all this stuff? He just told me he doesn't get women meanwhile he has been married and divorced twice and right now he has a girlfriend. Although he has been success for being a father(cares about me, feed me when I was young, cares about my career and so on). But one thing he failed as a father is to teach his son how to get a girlfriend. In the future when I get a son or sons, I will teach then/him how to get a girlfriend and still be a good father. I never had a true girlfriend, I kissed a girl when I was 5, and still obviously a virgin.

I had a terrible high school experience, especially trying to get a girlfriend. All of these high school bitches put me in the friend-zone and I didn't know why til now. I am so mad at myself right now because I feel behind. For not seeing any people I hated from high school for more than a year, I gained my confidence back and it is stronger than ever. Plus I have aspergers.

So the question is, Why my father didn't teach me how to get a girlfriend?

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  • Holzman_67
    8 years ago

    My dad taught me to never feel like a woman belongs to you. It is her choice to be with you so you better make her happy about her decision.

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    • Ellenna
      8 years ago

      What good advice! So have you followed it?

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      • Holzman_67
        8 years ago

        Yeah and I haven't had a relationship longer than 3 months so his advice stinks lol

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        • Ellenna
          8 years ago

          So have you tried asking them what would make them happy? And then doing it if it makes you happy too? Or do you just guess?

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          • Holzman_67
            8 years ago

            The girls I've been with don't like to make decisions, they prefer you to guess what they'd like to do, sort of as a test as to how well you know them. I have followed my intuition at all times. I don't think that's been an issue, it's more the fact that because I follow the philosophy of them not belonging to me, I'm very non possessive of them and perhaps that makes them feel like they're not wanted. I don't know, women are a mystery to me.

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            • Ellenna
              8 years ago

              I think you've been meeting the wrong women for you! Keep looking, we don't all want to be owned

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  • theseeker
    8 years ago

    I don't think it's normal to expect your father to teach you how to get a girl. You're just blaming others for your problems, which isn't right! I also don't think it's something that can be taught. I've always viewed that as something you figure out for yourself through observation and experience because everyone is different. What works for one girl won't always work.

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    • Holzman_67
      8 years ago

      thats a good point

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  • Darkoil
    8 years ago

    I grew up with 3 women which made me a lot more comfortable talking to girls than a man could of ever have taught me.

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  • Beep_Beep
    8 years ago

    Women don't like me because I'm a sperm dog; hairy and easy to tame.

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  • Terryeo
    8 years ago

    We get a lot of stuff in school. But there is no place to learn that. Unfortunately most parents have such poor results that neither of them have enough confidence to say; do this... do that. As unbelieveable as it sounds, you are as expert as anyone else.

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  • shuggy-chan
    8 years ago

    Haven't you ever heard of learned something the hard way? That way you'll actually earned it

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  • Doktor_Hildred_Von_Steinmann
    8 years ago

    You mean you didn't get the memo?

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  • Navilluschizo
    8 years ago

    be a man and take care of yourself above all. the rest will come.
    -dad

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  • RoseIsabella
    8 years ago

    My mom and dad didn't teach me much about love, sex and relationships either. I dunno, I was kinda shy and quiet so I probably kept that shit to myself a lot. Honestly, I do now in retrospect wish that they had given me more guidance since they've been together 48 years now.

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  • sexysonofsam
    8 years ago

    My dad took me to a brothel for my sixteenth birthday and paid for a nice young woman for me to teach me the ropes of a woman`s plumbing so to speak!greatest day of my life....

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    • Anotherfuckinggypsysailor
      8 years ago

      Is that true?

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      • sexysonofsam
        8 years ago

        yes totally true, he believed that it was the only way to learn about woman, he did it for my two brothers as well.

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