My dad and uncle

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Im a proud to be gay 30 year old man, im very successful and extremely proud of my self. I believe in my heart the reason I am gay was becuase of what my dad and uncle did to me and my little brother when we would take fishing trips in the back woods of North Carolina this is a touchy subject for me but I have learned to face it. They would molest us and they always said their dad did it to them and it was a tradition, I hated them for many years and now they are both dead and ive comed to terms with my self that it wasnt their fault they were raised to like it so I can no longer harbor hate for them. But me and my brother both are gay and I believe they are the reason we are who we are, I dont hate them for it I am happy to be gay I have a great soul mate that im hoping to spend the rest of mylife with and in a way I am glad they did it because my life would have been different if they didnt. Has anyone ever had an experience i their life they felt made them a different person then they were sappose to be?

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  • ThisIsRikkuFromSchool
    17 years ago

    If you were molested by a man wouldn't that mean that you would be afraid of guys.

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  • dukepost
    17 years ago

    Thirty year old men do not type like 12 year old boys.

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  • anticollie
    16 years ago

    I'm sorry, but I really wish that you'd have done some actual research on homosexuality.

    While there are many theories on homosexuality, "I was made into one," is most certainly not one.

    I would suggest taking the time to get to know yourself on a personal level, and truly ask yourself- is it a mask that you're wearing, or are you truly gay? If you find that you have no feelings for the opposite sex, than it is all-too-possible that you may be a homosexual. In which case, you should know it is likely a neurological misstep which occurred long before you were born.

    I hope I've made some sense, and I do with you luck, but it seems as though you've been doing quite well- and to that I do applaud you.

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  • raydee
    17 years ago

    I'm sorry for what happen 2 you during your childhood. I admire the fact that your proud of who you are, and you have someone 2 love and someone 2 love you. My father molested my cousin from ages 12-15. He passed that curse on 2 me. I molested my cousin from ages 8-14. I felt bad every time I did it and would cry because it was something I couldn't control.

    I'm a very good person but sometimes I felt like a monster. I wanted it 2 end so I prayed and prayed and asked God 2 forgive me and I asked my cousin 2 forgive me and he did. My life has been better since then. Now I plan on getting baptised and trying 2 break the curse and become an even better person, because I have learned my lesson. I'm sorry for everyone who has been a victim of this situation.

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    • dukepost
      17 years ago

      You are a sick fucking piece of shit if this is true. I think you are the poster, though. Fuck you. If you really molested your young cousin, you deserve slow torture until you die.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    hell no

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  • T1mbo
    12 years ago

    Were you forced into the molestation? Or did you get anything out of it? What was the nature of the molestation? Was it rape?
    No one knows why people turn gay, just as they don't know what makes people straight. Maybe there's something about the psychology of other men you need in your life because intrinsically, as men, they understand your needs as a man better than a woman does. Maybe you feel there's something missing in you and you want an open emotional relationship with a man so he can penetrate (not only your body) but your mind in an intimate and meaningful way. Gays are absolutely harmless and benign, they don't procreate so therefore they don't contribute to overpopulation, global warming, rape of women & fatherless children. Be proud.

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  • inuyasha_is_back
    13 years ago

    Your afraid that you would have been a totally different person if this hadn't happened to you? That maybe 'fate' did not envision you as a homosexual? All I can say is if you are happy don't sweat it. Bad and good things happen in peoples lives that make them who they are. Without experience no one would be anything. As for homosexuality... I don't think it's genetic. If you believe in evolution then we are only a higher developed form of animal, therefore it is unnatural for same sex relationships to occur in nature.

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    • iceyangel13
      13 years ago

      actually many cases have been documented of same sex "relationships" in animals, mostly in primates but I've also heard of rams.

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  • sum1fromeurope
    15 years ago

    I think people are born homosexual. From the gay people I know, that's what I've gathered.

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  • markholloway
    16 years ago

    wow and youre uncle and father werent arrested? quueeeeeerrr

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  • kristina_696969
    17 years ago

    Tha's a lame excuse for being gay!
    You ought to get some help!

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  • raydee
    17 years ago

    LOL

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    • mischiefairy
      17 years ago

      how is that funny..in any way shape or form? that kind of thing is very hurtful to alot of people not just the victims, but their families as well. and they almost never get over it

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      • raydee
        17 years ago

        No I'm not making fun of it. I was trying 2 replay 2 duke post for what he said 2 me. This story is true and has been hurtful and made my life a living hell. My point is that some bad deeds can be passed down hereditarily. This is a curse that has been alive in my family for years passed down generation 2 generation and I'm the only one trying 2 break this awful curse. I'm sorry if I offended you but I really can relate 2 this situation.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    You guys are lame!

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