My crush is wishy-washy....

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So I really need you guys' help on this.

I live on the east-coast, my crush lives on the west-coast. (We’ve known each other for about a year.) We both REALLY like each other and have always been upfront about that fact. We also agree that staying friends until we meet face-to-face is best for both of us.

Recently, however, my crush has changed their attitude toward me a little; they talk a LOT (And I mean a LOT) about people they are "smitten with" or "crushing on" (And I mean people they actually _know_, not celebrities or fictional people) so my question is this:

Should I write my crush off or should I not take what they’re saying seriously? Have I been permanently and irreversibly friend-zoned? What do you guys think? : >

Confront them about their behavior 7
Forget them-they have friendzoned you 16
Stick around-They oviously like you 2
Other 4
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  • mountain-man82
    9 years ago

    You guys live on opposite sides of the country. Your crush probably feels like youre never going to be close enough to have an actual relationship. So since you guys are strictly friends right now, your crush probably feels like they can come to you as a friend and tell you about the people that they like. It seems like you are more into your crush than your crush is into you.

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  • la_uva_mojada
    9 years ago

    Dude, forget that stupid ass person. YOU'RE the one who's wishy washy if you stick around. don't be dumb

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  • EccentricWeird
    9 years ago

    I, too, had a crush on Wishy-Washy. He got ALL the stains out and for a fraction of the cost.

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  • norm-a-nah
    9 years ago

    I'd leave it alone in belief he'll do the same to me but who cares!! life's to short enjoy your life with whomever.. in the meantime be paitient until you meet him in person you'll feel the vibe then from there you'll know if continuing is a good idea.

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  • seakelp
    9 years ago

    You're probably never going to meet them face-to-face so what does it matter? You're on opposite sides of the country. Just find a significant other close to where you live.

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    • Renaway
      9 years ago

      Well sure, I might end up dating locally again but the whole reason I started doing this in the first place is because it's really difficult for me to find local dates who have the super uncommon beliefs and interests that I do....The easiest option isn't always the best one which is why I'm so torn on this issue....

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  • Haddaway
    9 years ago

    What is love?!

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    • RoseIsabella
      9 years ago

      Love is not wishy washy.

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      • Haddaway
        9 years ago

        Thanks.. I can cross "love is wishy washy" off my list. Im gunna find out what it is. I SWEAR IT! *punches wall*

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        • RoseIsabella
          9 years ago

          Bitte schön.
          ;-)

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    • 69
      9 years ago

      what is wishy washy?

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