My cousin's ex gf.

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My cousin was dating a girl for few years she was a lovely girl they broke up due to there families were not seeing eye to eye him and her left on okay terms but they don't talk anymore. Me and her become really close when they stared dating they were together like 4 or 5 years I treat her like family and still do she treats me the same still. They broke up this year few months ago. My point is me and her still keep in contact I don't take sides its not my place and not something I do she understands that I love them both. my cousin doesn't know we keep in contact me and her his ex. He is 21 she is 20 I am 23. My point is it wrong we keep in contact and catch up?? do I tell him? I feel bad about keeping secrets I never keep secrets from him and him the same with me. And when me and her chat and hang out she never ever badmouths him. neither of them are dating anyone
els either and never badmouth each other ever But I can't help the fact he brought someone home who I become super close with either you don't like who they bring home or you like them but don't become close or you become super close with them treat them like like family especially when there been together for ages. My mum got Cancer for the second time breast cancer she single parent with 4 kids my older bro 25 me 23 and my sis 16 and my little bro 12. My father past away in 2007 sudden heart attacked and my mum got cancer again this year and had 17 hour operation and heavy chemo lost of it My cousins ex still rings me to see how we all are and if we need anything and see how my mum is doing even though she longer with my cousin she generally still cares thats how close we have become!! And my mum still likes her.

What do I do please help??

please no hate or nasty comments many thanks!!

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  • dirtybirdy
    8 years ago

    I don't see anything wrong here. I know some people would have a shit fit but those people tend to be pretty immature and just can't imagine how or why one would keep contact with an ex. For example, my parents are still great friends with my brothers ex but his wife is totally against that. She even tried telling my parents they couldn't be friends with the ex anymore. She has no say in it. They don't talk about the past relationship or involve the new wife in any way so who is she to tell them who they can talk to?!

    My point is, you all seem mature enough for this situation. You can't always help who you connect with, even if it's an ex of a friend or family member. If your cousin and this girl broke up amicably, there should be no reason for anyone to get mad about this, unless they are jealous or immature.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      Thank you so much for all your help Dirtybirdy Do I tell him me and her still keep in contact?

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    • Thunder_Ass
      8 years ago

      The birds in my yard don't give me advice half as good as this, you aren't a bird!

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      • dirtybirdy
        8 years ago

        I am so! I left my "credentials" on your windshield.

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