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Ok, so I have a fourth cousin, and he likes me a lot. He has even admitted it. Is this weird ? normal ? are people suppose to date fourth cousins ?
He is really wierd, he dated my friend once. SHe is WAYY younger than him, and he falls in love with every girl he meets, even if it is through the internet or phone !
Any comments ? any suggestions ?
What makes sex with a close relative so immoral is the risk of having children with genetic disorders. I don't know. I haven't really read up on the science. I don't know how unrelated you have to be, genetically, for it to be safe to have children with someone. The "younger" part is what disturbs me. Nonetheless, I don't really know the age. I can't really make a judgement on either.
From my experience this seems to happen all the time. Even though dating your 4th cousin is not against the law, it is still quite... in my personal opinion, incestuous.
Just let him down easy; " I really don't like you like that!"
If he is persistent, just lie your way out and say you have a boyfriend, and if you do, thats just truth!
Having a relationship with your first cousin let alone your fourth cousin who is blood distant is not illegal. Your cousin may be a creep on his own but the cousin love/attraction is quite common, but no one admits it because of social norms. If you don't return his feelings just let him know, just like you would any boy.
I happen know know a girl who graduated last year and her parents are married. They're 4th cousins and nobody seems to have a huge problem with it. So I suppose it's normal.
Who cares if he's your cousin, but if he falls in love with every girl soo quickly, I'd be careful about that.
If he falls in love so easily, where he can fall in love over the phone/internet, then he can fall out of it just as quickly.
i wouldn't take it too seriously if i were you.
if you had childern togther that would be inset and me persanily i dont think its normal and he sounds like a player meaning he only wants sum 1 who is gunna give him sex then he will finsh them
"... he falls in love with every girl he meets..." -- I guess you can count yourself as lucky that you are no closer than 4th cousin family-wise!
Give that dick a trial run before you go tellin anyone. It might not be worth the trouble. Good luck.
If he falls in love easily i wouldnt get involved but him being ur fourth cousin isnt a big deal i lost my virginity to a distant cousin
Having children by a close relative can result in genetic abnormalities (eg the "Village Idiot" of old) but a fourth cousin is too remote to be risky and is perfectly acceptable in law. In fact it is lawful to marry a first cousin so you are perfectly Ok.
Normal.
Not wrong.
Only wrong if you let society dictate your morals.
Fourth cousin is far enough removed genetically so no danger.