My cousin has been accusing me of "harassing"! it's enough now!!!

My cousin (or my sister-in-law's little sis) has been accusing me of "harassing" her...
It started a few years back..we used to be pretty close..hanging out, talking and stuff and then she started showing signs that she liked me..she started being more touchy with me...laughing and gently placing her hand on my shoulder then sliding it down to my lap and then quickly back to herself. I didn;t really mind because i kind of liked her too..but as the months went on..she got more touchy with me and so i decided to do something as well, so i kissed her hand one day and she was ok with it, then over the next couple weeks we were i guess somewhat dating..then she really started getting "horny". to be honest, my first thought was, this is too much, but after a while i went for it...not the big IT..but touching n what not...about a week later i broke it off with her because she kept reaching "down there" while family was around..and that's a BIG NO NO...then she became crazy..few days later my sis wanted to talk to me about a "serious matter" she said my cousin told her i touched her breasts..and i was in complete shock..i obviously denied it cuz i didn't know what else to say...and when i tried talking to my cousin about it..she grabbed me down there again and tried taking off my pants...i quickly moved away..the next week same thing...now this went on for about 3 years..I probably should have said something the moment it happened but i was just in shock and worried what my family would say of such an act...so i left it alone...now almost 8 months since the last incident, last week my family and i went over to her place and i walked into the washroom, turned on the light, locked the door, and when i turned around..she was standing right there, no clothes on..i got scared at first because she was in there with the lights off...as if she knew i was going to come...and then all of a sudden she jumped on me..i pushed her off and ran out...told my parents i just realized i have to finish an assignment and went home...

So my question is, what the heck can i do about this situation, I've become quite religious over the past year or so, and I do not feel comfortable at all bringing this up with someone I know..Any advice would be greatly appreciated...

P.S.

I really should apologize for the length of this story and my question, but i really needed to give details so that everyone could understand where im coming from.

Thank you all in advance for your patience in reading all that and for any advice...

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Comments ( 23 )
  • YouDaAlien

    Fucking trolls don't know how IT is done.

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  • midnight007

    That bitch is crazy and she's pretty much blackmailing you, confess what you did and let her parents "take care of her" I'm sure shell be in much more trouble than you ad if not then jut forget the past

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  • Pixienerd

    I think you should tell your parents. THATS NOY OKAY! She is obviously blackmailing you. That's rape, and illegal! Call the police or tell your parents.

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  • courios77

    Stay the fuck away. She will win u will lose if she twists the story around. Don't be a hillbilly.
    No family. Aollowed.

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  • 343Boy

    Your "cousin" is a sexual predator, she pretty much attempted to rape you in the bathroom, you should tell your family about this.

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  • Sobewhynot

    she sounds a little clingy and kinda like shes blackmailing you. if your not actually family at least you dont have to worry about crazy children. if you really dont want her to continue you should tell a family member immediately before she takes it too far.

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  • Evil_Devil

    Hello all, just wanted to thank all of you for your help. For those who didn't understand what I was saying...I did not bang her!
    I have an update on the situation. I was finally able to get the courage to talk to someone about it...a family friend. I also tried what POISONIVY suggested and surprisingly it worked quite well. So thank you for that!

    I had my proof...and i told her to buzz off...but she insisted that i was lying and in reality i was just playing a game with her...and again she tried something...except this time it seemed she wanted to give me a bj...I 'll be honest..i was tempted to let her do it...but THANK GOD I didn't !!!

    Anyway, next day just as i went to give my sis the the proof...she actually called me in and wanted to "talk" again about something...as soon as she opened her mouth and accused me...i played the recording...and BAM!!!

    Once again...thank you all for your help!!

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  • saix

    you are a freak. you got a girl to bang and you push her away? slap yourself for me.

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  • Bman

    Sounds like she won't take no for an answer.

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  • darkash

    You'll have to tell someone. If you wait she could start accusing you of things again and twisting the story around in her favor, making you look like a sexual deviant. She sounds twisted enough to do it. Find someone you trust.

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  • uncreative89

    fuck her brains out

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  • HarshbutTrue

    i gotta agree with reghollis, fuck her till she leaves u alone

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  • shiny_stuff_girl

    ew u gotta tell someone

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  • reghollis

    Cousin=free sex=lick that pussy dry!

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  • fashion_designer_wanna_be_13

    i think you should tell your parents if you think you are a lesbein they should understand and still love you even if you are because their your parents my friends mum is always telling my she would still love me as if i was her child if i was a lesbein or not so i think you should tell them if they dont understand why you think you are then tell them about that stituation you were in then i would think they would and problely want to help you in some way...
    well thats what i think, what do you think?

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    • fashion_designer_wanna_be_13

      *my=me srry

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  • redcarp

    To me it's normal some "games" with a cousin, if the line of complete sex is not crossed. Sometimes it happens and this kind of things normally disappear as times go, when more serious relationship with a partner is built. The fact that is not normal is her behaviour: it seems like she is not able to accept a refusal in an adult way, it seems she prefers to destroy you rather than accept you want to stop the game.
    So you must stop it for sure and make it public before she can describe you as a monster (and keep in mind, if you have not told the story to someone near you, people will believe her rather than you, since you are "the male")

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  • Ntimate

    It's about confusion and guilt. She has sexual desire but feels she shouldn't be acting on it. By telling someone else, she feels she can stop it, at least by getting your sister to intervene.

    If she goes after you again sexually, you can have an honest talk with her about it and say you don't think you should continue (even though you really want to). Don't make her think it is wrong, just that you two shouldn't be doing it because of what others would think.

    If there is a questionable age difference, that is another reason.

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  • Poisionivy

    Herez wot u can do... give her a call (get on of those cell fones in which u can record the call conversations)talk to her the entire episode about how it happen in a good way that she talks bout it.. then ask her why she lied to ur sis-in-law but prior that make sure u have a friendly conversation so that she becomes vulnerable n talks out the real stuff.. than u can have proof that she is the one who is crazy u can threaten her with that n ask her keep shut and buzz off!

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    • tbiz96

      i agree with you. that's a really good idea!!!

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  • orlybro

    Cool story, bro! All in all your situation is normal. I'm sorry to say, but religion isn't always the answer. It can sometimes brainwash you into thinking that holding something and repressing it inside can become a solution. BAD IDEA! What you want to do about it as mentioned by the previous commentators and talk to your family about it. Talk to anyone in your family or talk directly to her about while the family is there. And again, She isn't exactly blood-related to you. Just related by the law I'm assuming. LOL! Something like this can turn a person mad or maybe even insane if held in and the girl keeps coming on to you.

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  • You are going to have to be willing to talk to someone. I'd think your brother (who is married to your sister-in-law)? Tell them what happened from the start as you have here.

    The younger sister of your sister-in-law does not qualify as a "cousin." She is no different to you than her sister is to her husband, your brother (other than the married part). So your getting sexually involved with sister-in-law's little sis doesn't cross any lines (assuming she is of age).

    What you are doing wrong is being sneaky and secretive. So stop acting like you have something to hide. That just throws suspicion on what is going on.

    And further, by keeping this relationship secretively in the closet you may have made her feel like a tramp, someone to be used, or worse. And she is obviously upset and confused.

    So come clean - full disclosure, if its over say so & apologize to her; if not - no more sneakiness - you have an above board relationship that she needn't feel ashamed of.

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  • Ariler

    Seems like your friend is a little psycho up until the point where she started telling your sister that you tried to touch her it seemed pretty fine but then she started doing some twisted stuff, and waiting for you in the bathroom?

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