My cousin has been accusing me of "harassing"! it's enough now!!!
My cousin (or my sister-in-law's little sis) has been accusing me of "harassing" her...
It started a few years back..we used to be pretty close..hanging out, talking and stuff and then she started showing signs that she liked me..she started being more touchy with me...laughing and gently placing her hand on my shoulder then sliding it down to my lap and then quickly back to herself. I didn;t really mind because i kind of liked her too..but as the months went on..she got more touchy with me and so i decided to do something as well, so i kissed her hand one day and she was ok with it, then over the next couple weeks we were i guess somewhat dating..then she really started getting "horny". to be honest, my first thought was, this is too much, but after a while i went for it...not the big IT..but touching n what not...about a week later i broke it off with her because she kept reaching "down there" while family was around..and that's a BIG NO NO...then she became crazy..few days later my sis wanted to talk to me about a "serious matter" she said my cousin told her i touched her breasts..and i was in complete shock..i obviously denied it cuz i didn't know what else to say...and when i tried talking to my cousin about it..she grabbed me down there again and tried taking off my pants...i quickly moved away..the next week same thing...now this went on for about 3 years..I probably should have said something the moment it happened but i was just in shock and worried what my family would say of such an act...so i left it alone...now almost 8 months since the last incident, last week my family and i went over to her place and i walked into the washroom, turned on the light, locked the door, and when i turned around..she was standing right there, no clothes on..i got scared at first because she was in there with the lights off...as if she knew i was going to come...and then all of a sudden she jumped on me..i pushed her off and ran out...told my parents i just realized i have to finish an assignment and went home...
So my question is, what the heck can i do about this situation, I've become quite religious over the past year or so, and I do not feel comfortable at all bringing this up with someone I know..Any advice would be greatly appreciated...
P.S.
I really should apologize for the length of this story and my question, but i really needed to give details so that everyone could understand where im coming from.
Thank you all in advance for your patience in reading all that and for any advice...