My brother is mean to me......?

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Sometimes he is really nice, but other times he calls me a wh***, sl**, bi***, he says he is ggoing to kill me, and sometimes he phisically fights with me, for really stupid reasons. I am female, 1 year younger than him. And I don't want to tell my dad because he lives in other state and he often sees us, and I don't want him to be angry. And my mother tells me to ignore it, I tried to tell her that it hurts so much (sometimes I try to ignore but instead I just cried myself to sleep) and she constinues saying that I need to ignore him. Actually, I am the best sister he could ask for, I try 24/7 do make him happy, so he will stop being mean to me, but he NEVER changed. I defend him, I bring gifts for him when I travel (in my entire life, he never gave any presents AT ALL), I listen to him, I help him... I don't know what to do. Today for example, He called me every name in the world and said he would f**k my life and kill me, because I used hot water and didn't leave hot water for him, but actually nobody told me that we didn't have enough hot water. I'm so scared. I have been passed through these situations without telling anyone for YEARS, im so tired.

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  • Tisgranum
    12 years ago

    I would beat the ever living shit out of him.

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  • thewoeman
    12 years ago

    It's the job of an older sibling to make your life hell, silly. Though your brother is overdoing it.
    Wash his mouth out with soap. Swearing isn't nice.

    Really though, stop being so nice 'cause it ain't working.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    He sounds exactly like my sister. I personally never said any of those words to my sister, I just tell her the truth and ticks her off more.

    Don't do anything for him anymore. I hope he'll realise that you changed attitude towards him and maybe he'll want it back causing him to be nice with you.

    I wish I knew you so I could help you out with your brother (no violence needed) Stay strong.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    you sound nice and he sounds horrible. but it is your story and he might tell a different one. speak to him say " you are my brother, i love you and want the best for you but you are hurting me" if he continues the abuse do ignore him, make him apologise for the abuse if he doesnt ignore him some more, he will get the message.

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  • randomjelly
    12 years ago

    Ahhh sibling drama and over dramatization. Don't miss those years.

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