My brother is hot and he doesn't know it. iin?

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Firstly i'll start by saying I have no sexual attraction to my brother whatsoever.
My brother is attractive, hell my friends tease me about it all the timr and he is has no idea. Anytime anyboday mentions it he always says "not really'.
He is the guy who plays video games, reads comics and skateboards and doesn't give a damn what others think. All I can think is "what a waste" i know he'll find somebody, well plenty of people who love him how he is.
How can you NOT know you're attractive?

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  • dom180
    12 years ago | pl

    Just because he is hot, it doesn't mean he has to behave in a certain way. It isn't a waste to NOT be an arrogant bastard. Doing what you want with your life instead of basing your entire existance on your superficial good-looks is not a waste either. If he is happy as he is, which it seems like he is, that isn't a problem.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      12 years ago

      I didn't mean wasting his looks like that. I meant he doesn't give a crap about them, whereas I get bullied everyday for being ugly. Like he doesn't even want them.

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      • [Old Memory]
        12 years ago

        Sounds more like jealousy to me and bitterness but how do you know you are ugly? Because some stupid idiots who feel so insecure about themselves, they call you names to make themselves feel better said so?

        True beauty isn't what your skin is or how you look, it's who you and what you do that matters. Sure, being hot might seem great but I'd rather have a pretty soul than anything else.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          12 years ago

          Of course i'm jealous. It'd be nice to go out out without the fear of being physically and verbally abused.
          I think their problem is that they feel too good about themselves and look down on everybody else.
          No biterness, though. I love my brother.

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          • [Old Memory]
            12 years ago

            You're not the only one who's been through that. I spent a good 8 years of school being bullied, physically kicked, taunted, my grandparents' car spat on.

            But you can't know how someone else feels, even if you perceive them as "hot" or whatever else. Looks aren't everything. I'm still ugly as hell but I hardly care because I've got more to me than my face.

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      • 1000yrVampireKing
        11 years ago

        Many pretty people do not realize they are pretty. This goes for females and males.

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      • dom180
        12 years ago

        I'm sure you are not ugly really. More importantly, you are probably a lovely person, so don't let the bullies get to you! If people are making you feel down because they don't like the way you look, they are only making themselves look like idiots to anyone with half a brain cell. Keep your chin up!

        *hugs*

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  • whatadalliance
    12 years ago

    There's this kid I'm so totally in like(?) with. He's insanely intelligent, gorgeous, and has the greatest personality - but he doesn't know it!
    He also does the whole "play video games, homework homework homework," and is always bringing up the most interesting things.

    My only conclusion is that they must be too engrossed in other things, they just don't realize it. But really, these are THE perfect guys. They don't become douchebags obsessed w/ appearances.

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  • zchristian
    12 years ago

    Umm you dont sound to old and if he cares or not is his decision not yours...

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  • shuggy-chan
    12 years ago

    idk, ppl suddenly started telling me i was hot like only after i turned 21, so for 20 years i figure i was like just ehhhh, know im just confused. hes probably the same

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      12 years ago

      He is... I guess thats why he doesn't know it then. I'm not sure.

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  • lufa
    11 years ago

    Reminds me of a good friend of mine in high school. One day he was suddenly seen as a major hottie by the girls-initially I never saw it, he was ordinary to me, just my friend Johnny and I knew him from the inside-as a good person, but then realized he really was very good-looking after. Now I think he should've gotten into modeling.

    In my case when I was younger and fitter, I was considered pretty attractive in my own right-but I also never really took advantage of my looks, as much as I could've. I think your brother will come to regret it as well when he's older and realizes he squandered the gift that nature gave him.

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  • YngPoly
    12 years ago

    I was 18 almost 19 before I knew girls or guys found me attractive. I had low self esteem and thought I was the ugliest guy ever. For 2 years (jr and sr year) there were these girls that called me guapo the last day of sr year I asked what it meant and when they told me "handsome" I was stunned and it completely changend my self image.

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  • pohpoh
    12 years ago

    weird

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    i think it's a bit common.

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  • Andy20.
    12 years ago

    Mrman10 what ever i know what I'm talking about

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  • Andy20.
    12 years ago

    U don't have to let anyone know try it and see wat I mean

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  • Andy20.
    12 years ago

    U try something with "him" maybe it will open his eyes like real talk no bs are u getting wat I'm saying my advices really work they worked with all of my friends

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  • Andy20.
    12 years ago

    How about u show him that he is hot ur self maybe he will see it ;) it might work try it

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      12 years ago

      ... I don't follow.

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      • Mrman10
        12 years ago

        Sadly, he is talking about incest.

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  • squirrelgirl
    12 years ago

    My brother is the same way, except he is more extreme about it. He has really low self-esteem and thinks he's downright ugly when in fact he's actually pretty handsome and girls check him out all the time.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Being hot doesn't mean you should be a hoe.
    Example: some girls say "if I looked like Beyonce, I'd have all the men in the world" but honey, if you had all the men in the world, you'd be no Beyonce. You'd be some video vixen or whatever, that I cannot imagine putting beside Beyonce. I would not be able to respect you.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Perception is a funny thing and not always in harmony with reality. Or rather MY perception of reality and yours.

    TL;DR- It's probably for the best that he sees himself this way rather than become an arrogant douchebag.

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