My brother degrades me constantly , and i just dont care anymore.

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He's driven me to the breaking point and back.

I cant believe how he can degrade me so much , get yelled at by my father , and then go and talk to him like it never happened , while I would cry my eyes out in my room and be drepressed for days .My father doesnt let me say a word back to him because it "doesnt matter" . If I do , I get threatened with being hit for saying things to my brother( hes 2 years younger). He gave me an eating disorder when I was 14 ( I was 5'8 & 110 lbs at my lowest point) it wasnt exactly all on him, but he started those kinds of thoughts. Righty now he is screaming to the whole house about how much of Fag I am for not wanting him to shadow me at my school. ( iq. I show him around etc.) because I tell my guy friends about him and they would kill him right there.

I dont want to defend myself anymore, you cant fight with a crazy person
Is it normal ?

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  • wistfulmaiden
    9 years ago

    Its normal for you to feel defeated after years of abuse. Seriously, just punch him in the face and youll feel better.

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  • boulder
    12 years ago

    likely your brother sees you as being happier or smarter than him , he wants to bring you down as he feels so inadequate

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  • heyyall;)
    12 years ago

    My bro almost gave me an eating disorder, but he was older so my dad stuck up for me.

    Hang in there :(

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  • crowl13
    12 years ago

    Hang in there and as soon as college ends, get out of that house. Can't you stay with a friend? ED are very serious and it seems that you live in a very violent environment. I grew up in a broken home as well and I just ran out of it as soon as I could. It is for the best, and I agree with the comment above, they are not family they are just human beings who unfortunately live with you and support you economically. Get out of there!

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  • Knight_Riot
    12 years ago

    I feel for u, having anamosity towards family is always tuff, but eventualy u gota trust ur judgment towards them. If u know in your heart that they are being unfair then u cant just look at them as family anymore but u have to look at them as human beings, human beings that are being unfair and crule to u... i know its the obvious awnser but TRULY ignore them, if u get right with ur self and u are able to see that things they do or say to u dont detemine the person who u know that u are inside, then nothing can hurt u... When u lay down at night its just u in that head, so thats the only person u should feel obligated to please...

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