My brother caught me doing something "intimate"

if he's typically been a nice loving brother until now then it probably means that he doesn't realize just how bad this is upsetting you. he probably thinks its just an minor annoyance that he can pick at, if he really is a nice loving brother than he'll probably stop if you tell him how much it upsets you.

my advise is to talk to him

btw a word of warning there will be some others who i'm sure will try to help you like me, but with a story like this your comment section is about to get flooded with trolls posting stuff like, he wants to fuck you or screw him. get ready to start sorting through the trolls

Do you have a lock on your door? If you have a lock on your door I highly recommend that you use it!

he should of knocked.That is what I would say when my kids would tattle on each other,for dumb stuff. it isn't like you had a person up there and you were having sex.

He's zeroing in on your embarrassment to humiliate you. If you can keep telling yourself you were doing nothing wrong, that he was rude and disrespectful to enter your bedroom without knocking and just look him in the eye and say "So what?" he'll eventually stop this bullying.

He's acting like that because he can and because he's getting a response from you.

If I were you I'd stay at your friend's house as often as possible until your parents return and if he objects or says he'll tell on you, respond that if he does you'll tell your parents why you didn't feel safe at home.

MR.mr is right - ignore the stupid suggestions you'll get from trolls and keep yourself safe

There are two types of people: Those who can take things seriously or those who always needs to make things a joke (like Chandler from Friends). Maybe he just doesn't know how to handle the situation. If his true intentions are to humiliate you, then to hell with him. What can he do, tell your parents? With a brother like that, you probably have some dirt on him as well.

It's not right. I believe that there is not way that he doesn't see how this is harming you. I would not put up this shit with my brother, and neither should you.
I bet he jacks off every day.

While I also believe this is a troll story, I'm going to answer it as though it's real (as I usually do) - in case someone else in a similar situation who is too embarrassed to actually ask a question can take something from my advice.

Firstly, masterbation is perfectly natural. Yes, some more extreme religious views will say it's evil, but all scientific evidence (including evidence of masterbation within other species) points to the fact it's perfectly normal.

While some people (especially on this site) will actually ridicule you for remaining celibate, I personally regard it as a matter of your choice. Given the fact that celibacy is seen by modern society as "a little old fashioned" or even "strange", give yourself credit for adhering to your beliefs.

Now, your brother was totally wrong for bursting in on you without knocking. It was a gross invasion of your privacy. He needs to understand that he is the one that is in the wrong here. Your first recource is to talk to him directly. I understand that this may be very "awkward" and embarrassing for you, but he needs to understand how his poor behaviour is affecting you, how it is making you feel.

Hopefully, assuming he is the caring brother you claim, he will realise he is in the wrong, and stop tormenting you about it. If not, then you will need to speak to your parents - or under the circumstances at least your mother. This will probably be even harder and feel even more embarrassing, however I hope that your parents love and respect you, and understand that (even if they personally feel masterbation is sinful or something) your brother's breach of your personal privacy and subsequent actions are potentially very harmful to your self esteem and wellbeing.

Hopefully, this will aleviate the problems you are now experiencing.

The only way to make this go away is to not feel shame! You need to say to him get over it. You did nothing wrong at all. You should say I was doing a very natural thing and your so sorry he doesn't have the maturaty to deal with his emberresment he created when barging into your room. the only way to make this go away is to not be ashamed, face it head on and tell him to get over it. Good luck!

You can write a letter to your brother telling him the truth that you are harassing me and not acting like a good brother you used to be.

Your brother wants to watch you and, more likely, help you. Why do you think he keeps offering to give you a hand and ask if you are doing it soon? Either let him or tell him to cut the shit. It is that simple.

You're not doing anything that your brother isn't already doing. And he really didn't see you do anything other than have your hand down your pants. Either do in when he's not around, or just take off your panties, spread your legs and invite him to watch or join in.

HAHAHAHAHAHA

Well first of all, it is healthy for a seventeen year old girl to blow off frustration by massaging her clit. Orgasms are good. What is not good is thinking it is "wrong". Shame can be debilitating. Do continue to frig off on a regular basis and try to feel good about it.

Secondly, get a lock for your bedroom door if you can. Or, at least put a chair under the door knob. Barging in on you was wrong. And he owes you a sincere apology.

After your parents get back let us know how the situation develops. And, take good care of your own sexuality. That's what the rest of us do. Hell, I jerk off everyday.

make it clear that he must knock if your door is closed...and lock your door in future...when he says stuff ...just say if your trying to embarrass me its working I am very embarrassed to have such an immature jerk for a brother

Hahaha your brother is sadistic. Fucking beautiful.

Don't take it so seriously! It's normal. Big deal. As if your brother doesn't do it himself. Tell him to grow up or you'll post a video of him doing it. Buy a lock for your door gf! A girl has to get herself a good lock!!!! You got lucky it could have been worse! :)

˙ǝsɹnoɔ ɟo ʎɐʍ snonɔsıɯoɹd-uou ɐ uı ˙ǝlqɐʇɹoɟɯoɔun lǝǝɟ ɹǝɥʇoɹq ɹnoʎ ǝʞɐɯ oʇ ɹǝʌo spuǝıɹɟ ɹnoʎ ɟo ǝɯos ǝʇıʌuı oʇ ǝɯıʇ ǝq ʇɥƃıɯ ʇı ʞuıɥʇ ı

First, "touching yourself" is completely NORMAL, regardless of what he may think.

Try talking to him, and tell him to grow up, amd that if you caught him in a similar scenario, you would act differently...

My brother busted in on me when I was about your age, but I'm also a male, it was super awkward at first but we pretty much just laughed it off minutes later. How much older is he? Any reasonably mature adult would understand if you confronted him.