My brother.

My brother is truly the most horrible brother imaginable.
He teases me often calling me a fat whale, thunder thighs and other names.
He goes onto the computer just to annoy me and stayss on all night so i have no time or any time to have a turn.
He abuses me and leaves me with tears in my eyes and bruises running up and down me.
When i'm on the piano he automatically goes on the other one and plays louder so i can't practice.
What do i do? I need help, should I just walk away and ignore (although i've tried it doesn't help) or something else?
I hate my brother but it seems i can't ignore him and I hate being in pain.

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Comments ( 16 )
  • ZP21

    bad advice but works: kick him in the crotch. not too hard but enough to prove that you can retaliate and hurt him back when he does dumb shit. he will begin to learn to not do it because youre dominant and can return the pain. it happens. its really common for siblings to be like this and one day he will realize he needs to get his shit on track and not be a douche if he actually wants to get chicks

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  • wuddeva

    Threaten him with a knife. Just threaten, don't do anything else. This has been an announcement from the bad advice agency.

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  • Avant-Garde

    How old is he? You really need to tell your parents about his abusive and concerning behaviour.

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  • Terence_the_viking

    If you really are a fat bloater sit on the little fucker

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  • iin2want2know

    You have 2 pianos but only 1 computer. What's up with that?

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  • You have two pianos. You are privileged

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  • portalmasterx7

    he sounds like a total dick

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  • Sibbiling riverally

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  • ruralfrights

    Take a wild guess. Why do you REALLY think that he's doing this? (take into consideration your own behaviores that could have contributed to this as wel--which doesn't make his abuse right)

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  • If you have parents - tell them. If you don't have parents - move out.

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  • chillyboy88

    If you ignore his abuses, and if you can avoid crying, it will make you seem tough. If you want to work out or something (even if your a girl) Then stay after school and use the schools weight room if they have one. Talk to someone or maybe your brother is being bullied at school. (I don't know how old you are or your sibling)
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  • PoisonFlowers

    Yes, it IS a big deal. You don't have to put up with that crap. Sometimes siblings can be you worst enemy eh :(?

    I hope you find some way to sort him out. You deserve better.

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  • Tell your parents to intervene - he's assaulting & harassing you & it is serious. If they do nothing to protect you, talk to a teacher or go to child welfare. Parents are obliged to parent & provide a safe environment.

    Do not let them trivialize this. You have the bruises to show that this has gone way beyond sibling rivalry.

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  • hotchickie81

    What a jerk!!

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  • Lastly, I don't know how to vote on this. If I vote 'No' then do I support his awful actions? I support who you are and you are definently not normal, your better than that.

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  • bobspicnspan

    wow he sounds like a real jerk, is he young? it might just be his age and he will grow out of it maybe...hopefully, but that's wrong definitely doing all that stuff to you! have you told your parents what he does?

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