My boyfriend won't eat me out
We've been dating for a few years now, I feel really comfortable around him. We first had sex the night we met and the relationship took off from there. Recently, in the bedroom, it has been a little plain or boring for me. We do the same usual stuff over and over again without really spicing it up..I asked him if he wanted to try something a little different, and I asked him if he wanted to eat me out. He said no, and asked if we could bring a third person into the relationship and especially the bedroom. It ended up being a guy, and they practically just went at it while I just sat there.... Is he gay?? What should I do?