My boyfriend watches porn every morning while i sleep! is this normal

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I'm so upset and yet I don't know if I'm being silly or what to do.
I have been with my boyfriend for over 2 years and I am currently 3 months pregnant with our first child. Normally I leave for work few hours before my boyfriend goes to work, but I have recently been off work while he goes to work, and everyday I have woken up to find he has gone to the bathroom and taken his Iphone with him. Its very quiet and then the toilet flushes about 20mins later and he jumps into the shower. I got very curious as to why he takes his phone to the bathroom, so I had to check his phone only to find he has been looking at porn every morning on the internet over his phone. We do have sex, OK at the minute it hasn't been as often as we use to do it, but I love him so much and it hurts me so much that he looks at other women. In a way I feel this is cheating and that when we do have sex he is thinking of the porn he has been watching. Does anyone think this is normal? I not sure what to do ?

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  • fyerdancer4136
    12 years ago

    I'm am going through the same problem nd it hurts,the only difference is that I'm not pregnant which makes it probly hurt more, he takes his phone in the bathroom nd I always wonder why I did say something once and he stopped doing it and left his phone at home he has 2 so he doesn't need to take the droid w him yunno now it has started again I noticed on his phone that he's been watching porn everyday and on days we don't have sex,I am going to post something very similar to.your story. I feel for you :( I even ask if he wants to.watch could he at least watch it with me bc I also like porn,but not every single day if I say anything he'll say why r u snooping through my phone. Idk what to do anymore its bothering me as I can see I'm not the only one.

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    • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
      12 years ago

      My boyfriend does this too. But... so do I.

      It's not wrong to watch porn, or masturbate. Why should your partner own all of your orgasms? I mean it's not like they're sharing their pleasure with other people... they're just jerking off alone.

      now if it's interactive porn - sexting or sex chat or phone sex, then sure that's cheating because the "partner" you're with is actively participating. but just watching porn... that's nothing different than a steamy love book to me, especially if you jump right to the steamy bits an leave the plot behind.

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  • jensapa
    13 years ago

    That's men for u! He's prob always been lookin at it it's just u only busted him now. It's not worth breaking up over though.

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  • TyLee
    13 years ago

    I feel so so sorry for you! I could seriously cry right now hearing your story. This is going to bother me for days. That is not normal and so disrespectful!!! You should leave him. You are pregnant! He shouldn't be watching that at all but omg while you are pregnant!?!? Please know that it's not normal or acceptable!!!

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  • PREGNANCYISHOT
    12 years ago

    Am a lady and cannot stop watching pregnancy hardcore porn and having a good masturbate to it all.
    Its gotten to the point where I had to buy (and now wear) a 9 months practise pregnant belly suite to do the job it fells so much better than stuffing myself and the best thing I brought. I love wearing it while watching pregnancy hardcore porn or stuff re pregnancy on TV or YouTube then masturbate rubbing a bath towel in-between my fanny and crossing my legs, when no one is around. Has anyone else brought one of these practise pregnant belly suite? I am thinking of wearing my suite one day around my village to see if any looks at me and to see how much turned on I get.

    I too cannot see women, friends, family members or teachers pregnant in real life without being wet below and sexily aroused.I believe I would have to see something about pregnancy to get me in the mood before sex God I am so turned on now I need to go masturbate good and hard, as I am very wet too. View my story to read more!

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  • honeybeee
    13 years ago

    I know it hurts make him watch dr Phil dr Phil says looking at porn is cheating

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    • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
      12 years ago

      No it's not.

      However... I suspect many jealous partners want to call it that ... mainly because they're jealous partners.

      Telling your viewers what they want to hear doesn't mean it's right or true.

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  • PREGNANCYISHOT
    11 years ago

    It has gotten to the point where I had to buy a 9 months practise pregnant belly suite which I had to give up in March 2013, since my one and only bf found it and took to a charity shop. However I never really said that I had brought it or why. I feel empty without it.

    I loved to still act very very fat and pregnant too wearing tight clothes (sometimes I wear an old swimming suite stuffed to the max) and a very tight belt. It does not feel the same anymore, and does not feel like I am carrying a baby.

    Reading all of these comments on this website about pregnancy, sex, masturbating and porn turns me on, so wet!!!! God help me.... towel rubbing me feeling so nice

    I am pre-longing the end so much it is making me feel like crap, like I am not having a baby :-(, I do that so much these days. Cannot say why I love to make it last so long that the feeling turns to crap and not like nice masturbating anymore

    It is an itch that want go away lol I agree without some pregnancy porn at times to masturbate too, it would not be so good. Everyone should enjoy porn now and again, or sexy things which turn them on - for me big fat pregnant tummies.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    12 years ago

    Masturbating to porn - perfectly fine.
    Masturbating while your spouse or partner is still asleep - also fine.

    Consider this - he may have been doing this all along but you didn't know because you were going to work first.

    OR he's jerking off because he's awake and horny (morning wood) but doesn't want to disturb you with his arousal because you're pregnant. Either because you still need more sleep, or because he's afraid of hurting the baby.

    However you may have a BIG issue when he finds out you decided you had a right to snoop his phone. Unless he specifically lets you do this, I don't see where you had any valid reason to snoop.

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  • dinsana4u
    13 years ago

    you should play with his cock and watch anal porn while you show him your ass,it helps to wear tight thong panties.Let him in your ass.

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