My boyfriend wants to try shrooms, iin?

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Okay so I am the kind of girlfriend that is very layed back. I trust my boyfriend and let him be his own person.Hes goes away to school and I want him to have fun, but he recently told me he wants to try shrooms. Now I have gotten high with my boyfriend a couple of times, but when he mentioned that he wanted to try shrooms, I got a little nervous. Now I cant tell him what to do,but I really dont feel comfortable with him doing it. Is it bad if I honestly tell him I would rather him not? I know I dont own him or anything but Im worried its dangerous. I dont want him to think that im making decisions for him..is this normal?

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  • gr8aznmomba
    12 years ago | pl

    I've done shrooms before. They're weird. Just weird. No reprocussions. Nothing damaging. You wake up the next morning with the typical recovery mindset. Not addicting at all. I don't see why people thing such minor drugs are damaging. And no, if doing shrooms was normal it would probably be legal.

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  • Thereisnogod
    12 years ago

    Mushrooms changed my life I'm 24 and i did them years ago. It is like traveling to outer space and then back down. To them together and you won't regret a thing. be positive about it

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  • Idontpulloutmycouchdoes
    12 years ago

    The first time i did shrooms i thought i was legit going todie. Having said that, shrooms r amazing. The first time i did them i was in high school and my mom found out while i was tripping and it wasnt fun. So i wated a couple of years and gave it another shot with some close friends n had the time of my life. Make sure if you do end up doing them that you are in the right scenario with no obstacles in your way. I think everyone should atleast try it. And if he does, tell him to be outside.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    If I could get some, I'd eat them. I've always wanted to try shrooms.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Tbh I want to try shrooms myself but if you don't want your bf doing it then tell him or don't do shrooms with him.

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  • ImmaculateLucifer
    12 years ago

    I would let him take some. Be with him while he's tripping so if he starts tripping out you can calm him down, and don't overreact if he starts tripping out. Just say things like, "It's just shrooms" "itll only last a while" "Im right here with you", stuff like that so he can stay calm and ENJOY his trip

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  • blueskies1001
    12 years ago

    Shrooms are very, very fun, and are harmless for infrequent usage. In fact, shrooms are less toxic and less addictive than weed, which is in turn less bad than alcohol! I highly approve of doing them.

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    • shade_ilmaendu
      12 years ago

      Who told you shrooms are less toxic than weed? Without looking up the numbers, it takes about your body weight in shrooms to kill you. It takes several times your body weight in weed to kill you.

      Either way, its impossible to consume that much unless someone found a way to make the active chemicals extremely concentrated O.o

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  • carbolic
    12 years ago

    Trips can go bad or good. Just make sure to be educated on the possible bad and good things that might happen, even if you don't agree with him taking the stuff because something bad could happen, I do think you should support him if he ends up being in your presence or talking to you while on them. Either that or tell him to do it somewhere else with other people he trusts who know what's going on.

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    • White187
      12 years ago

      Seriously, as long as you're in a comfortable environment with people you trust life will be wonderful!

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  • WakinBacon
    12 years ago

    Do some research:

    http://www.erowid.org/plants/mushrooms/mushrooms.shtml

    After checking that site out extensively you shouldn't be nearly as concerned. Maybe it'll even make you curious :)

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  • melovelongtime
    12 years ago

    let him do it and u should too time of ur life soo soo soo soo fun yes its normal and safe 100% organic

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Shrooms? Yea let him do it just make sure he doesnt have any phobia or fear of anything lol

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    • themannyman
      12 years ago

      whenever i have been tripping nothing has been able to phase me, one time i was tripping and some guy shoved me, my foot caught in a pothole and i broke my ankle, didn't know it was broken until the next day. that same day i went to a professional haunted house, i laughed my ass off the whole time.

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  • Shackleford96
    12 years ago

    Tell him you are worried about him and that is why you would really rather him not do it, but if he still feels he has to then you would understand. Also, if he does carry through with it and you really care about him you probably want to be there for him if the trip starts going bad so that you can help keep him calm and talk him out of it. I've not tried shrooms myself, but I have heard that trips can be pretty horrible sometimes... Good luck.

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  • DwayneHicks
    12 years ago

    Yes.... Doing highly dangerous drugs is perfectly fine to say yes to. ....Are you for real.... Lady I seriously hope you don't say it's ok for him to try it. Be a good girlfriend and tell him that to knock that crap off.

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    • jac4224
      12 years ago

      haha i told him i would really rather him not...he listened. clearly i am more important then a stupid drug. i let him stick to the pot. that shits good

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      • themannyman
        12 years ago

        m'am, firstly hallucinogens have no real physical side effects, ESPECIALLY mushrooms. mushrooms have been proven to aid memory and creativity. and mushrooms only have smelly gas as a side effect. they can imporve your personality and make it eaisier to talk to people. you are better able to solve problems and, another thing, YOU CAN'T GET ADDICTED TO HALLUCINOGENS! studies have shown they improve grades in school, raise workplace productivity, and make your mind become more open to new ideas and points of view. your boyfriend would be better off doing mushrooms than not. mushrooms have also been shown to aid in curing addictions by making ou think about the unconscious urges consciously and often helping you identify and counteract those urges.

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        • shade_ilmaendu
          12 years ago

          The first time I did acid was my major realization that I need to quit smoking cigarettes. Now a year and several failed attempts later Im on what I hope to be my final quit. :P

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      • shade_ilmaendu
        12 years ago

        "I let him stick to the pot" well I was going to assume you were an overly concerned girlfriend and assure you that he was in no danger doing shrooms, but wow.

        He isnt yours. You dont let him do anything, he does what he wants as that is his right as an individual.

        I would probably choose shrooms over you if youre normally this controlling. And please, lets try to keep the discourse civil here. My replies are often interpreted as hostile while I simply sometimes err on the side of bluntness.

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        • jac4224
          12 years ago

          who are you to tell me im controlling? im actually what most people call...responsible and caring. my boyfriend chose not to do the shrooms for his own reasons..im just glad he chose not to it thats all. i was being sarcastis when i said "let" i cant make or let him do anything and vise versa. but when your in a long term relationship you need to understand how the other person feels about certain things. A controlling person wouldnt have put this story up for adivce....a controlling person would have said staight out to their partner...your not doing tat im not allowing that...pretty sure thats not me. So go f*ck your self and have a happy new year

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          • shade_ilmaendu
            12 years ago

            Well I must express my sincerest thank you for heeding the request in my last paragraph as I truly was trying to be polite about this.

            It wasnt apparent that you were joking about that, and yes its wonderful to be concerned about something youre unfamiliar with. I hope that people here have helped to educate you about psylocybin mushrooms regardless of your boyfriends decision.

            That statement just really rubbed me the wrong way, because while I will advise my boyfriend if he asks for it, I do not control him in any way shape or form. He has freedom to go where he wants, do what he wants, goof around and party and fuck bitches if he wants, and tell me about if he wants. Because I dont believe its fair to ever tell the one you love that they cant do something that they want to do, if they truly want to do it. I wouldnt tell anyone I didnt know how to live their lives. That should go even more so for the person Im with, because I care about them and would consider their happiness above everything but their safety. Thus, once realising that psylocybin mushrooms are not harmful in any way, I would have no problem with it. If he was doing heroin, that would be a different story, but I still wouldnt actively be controlling as that would only push the person away.

            So have a happy new year yourself, and it would be greatly appreciated if you wouldnt fling so much venom my way next time. Thank you.

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