My boyfriend wants me to smoke pot with him

I've been dating my boyfriend for a little under a year now, and I can say that he's the greatest guy I ever been with. Recently he invited me and few of his other friends over to his house. We ordered food and played some video games, but then after, he and them decided they wanted to smoke a few bowls. I didn't want to at first, but then he convinced me to. I'd never smoked weed before, so obviously I was skeptical, but I didn't want to disappoint him. It burned in my lungs, and I ended throwing up in the bathroom. Some of them laughed at me, which only added to how uncomfortable I felt.

To be honest, I was glad when it was over and everyone went home. Fast forward to next week, and he invited us over again. All of this was shocking to me because up until then, I didn't even know he smoked. Rinse and repeat of last time. It took some convincing but they didn't make me try it again. We had an argument after they left. He said that I wasn't doing the one thing he had wanted me to. I don't like seeing him mad, and that was never what I meant to happen.

I feel like I'm stuck between a rock and hard place. On one hand, I don't want to try it again, because of what happened the first time. But on the other, I don't like making him mad. Especially when he's normally so sweet. I just don't know what to do.

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  • normal-1

    TELL HIM TO F OFF.

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  • -light-

    Ditch him NOW. He's no good for you girl.

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  • anormalperson

    dump the fucker

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  • _ItsScience

    I've seen this kind of thing a few times now.
    He's not worth an addiction or discomfort hun. He shouldn't want you to do something that will cause you physical pain. And he especially shouldn't get mad at your completely reasonable decision.

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  • john9966

    do only what you feel is right for your body.your bf today is here tomorrow may not be here.your health is for the rest of your life.pot is healthy but nobody should force you to do anything.tell him he is childish and your relationship can not be influenced in any way by smoking pot.take it like this:you like chocolate and he does not.should he eat it just for you?no he should not.its silly,childish and useless.there are other things important in a relationship and one of them is understanding what each other likes and enjoys are.

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  • Protagoras

    I smoke pot, I'd maybe suggest to a girl to try it if she didn't smoke, I would never coerce her to, that's a bit psychotic. I think you should probably part ways with this guy.

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  • Don't do something to please him if it makes you sick. He should be concerned about your well-being.

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    • mrydan28

      Amen!

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  • BigScaryRooster

    So he like wants you to do it again despite you having a bad reaction to it? Get rid of him. He's being selfish.

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  • kelliekelliekellie

    Pot is for hippies. You're a strong woman. Give the nigga an ultimatum. If he don't slow down on that shit or make you smoke that shit once again, you dump his ass and you go get yourself some fine ass healthy dude with a bigger cock and some fine ass lungs.

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    • mrydan28

      There are other low level people that think they need to chemically alter their brains. There are - skaters, blacks, goths, bikers, pre-teens, lazy white trash. Get a real man.

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  • SmokeEverything

    You should smoke so at least you don't have the tolerance of an infant baby, but I don't get why he wants you to smoke so bad. That's just less pot for him.

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  • Aries

    smoke pot if you're already a developed adult and YOU are genuinely interested in trying it or feel you need its medicinal benefits . Otherwise it's really not worth it .

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