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My boyfriend is aroused by the thought of me having sex with other men. So 3 nights ago he asked me if I wanted to have a one night stand with some guy. I don't like it when he talks about me and other men but I tolerate it because I love him and you love someone and their weirdness right. He says he loves me and cares but I don't know.
If this is a true story and not a troll, all I can say (like most people on here are saying) that this is NOT love this is him being in control and also being a pervert.
I had a flatmate way back when I was in my early 20's who had a disgusting "boyfriend" who would come over at all hours of the night just to fuck her. She told me it was true love, but that's all it was, she was a convenient fuck. One night when she couldn't sleep with him as she had her periods, I heard him yelling at her (from my bedroom) and he slammed out of the front door of our flat. She then took me into her bedroom to show the little "love note" he left behind, which consisted him of spoofing over her underwear. Gross I know, but when I advised her to drop him, she told me that it was romantic and that I didn't know what true love was.
She was about as deluded as you seem to be.
Drop him!
I know this woman who's husband wanted her to it with another man as he watched. She finally agreed. Then he wanted her to do another and then a 3rd guy. She started to like it and realized that her husband wasn't very good in bed. She ran off with one of her lovers. Be careful what you wish for.
Your boyfreind is a dick head, if he really loved you he would not ask you to fuck a total stranger. Its one thing to fantasise about a threesome or some such thing but hardly ever leads to happiness in a relationship.
What if you like the strangers dick more than your boyfriends and stop giving him any honey? Ask him how he would feel about it if the stranger was better in bed than him and had a monsterous dick?
If the thought of having sex with a man other than your current boyfriend makes you uncomfortable, don't do it if you don't want to. It may arouse him but doing that for the sake of making him happy isn't worth it. In my opinion I think you should tell him it upsets you. If he doesn't know he may be encouraged to continue talking about it. So you should tell him and only do it if you are willing.
Are you sure you didn't hear wrong? Maybe he asked you if you could just have one nightstand.
Thats not right, your sex life is completely your choice and he has no right to force you to do what you dont want to do!
If he respected you at all he'd have dropped this idea as soon as you made it clear you weren't interested. If you didn't do that, you are fair game for predators like him and you need to get away from him and work on your self esteem. Love doesn't mean doing things against your will to please someone else, it should be about mutual respect.
tell him to piss off, and find yourself another boyfriend who respects you.
Some ppl enjoy that kind of lifestyle some don't. You need to decide what you can live with.
Exactly! Be careful, this could destroy your relationship and also your life. By life I mean, with a total stranger, not knowing their medical history is like Russian-Roulette. That person may be caring any of numerous of STD's, like AIDS!
If you feel like this is not for you, then tell your boyfriend no, and just maybe you are not really in love after all...
My wife caged my small dick her boss comes over to fuck her two times a week and make fun over my 2in dick as I lick Cindy clean after that big cock
"...you love someone and their weirdness right?"
Nope, I agree to disagree, and if he doesn't like it then I'm cool flying solo. If I have to say no more than once or twice he's got a problem of which I don't want any part.
me and boyfriend should double team you then we will all take turns snowballing cum load between the three of us like circus animals
Make sure you find the biggest dick guy you can find, and record him fucking you. Scream out you've never had a dick this big and you're bfs tiny dick never felt this good. Then refuse sex with your bf and say he could never pleasure with what he has to offer.
I told my wife she could have sex with someone else as long as she tells me all about it. I also told her I would love to watch her have sex with someone else. To date she hasn't tried it. So no, your boyfriends request is not strange at all