My boyfriend wants me to dress and act like my twin??

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First, i must say my boyfriend and i love each other very much. So here's the problem: My twin sister is country and southern and what not and my boyfriend is as well. The belt buckles, boots, ten gallon hats, you name it.He also says stuff like "I'm going to take you shopping one day and buy you a nice western outfit" Well turns out he's cheated and flirted behind my back with girls of similar traits and such. [to top it off i have infact caught him flirting with my twin] I'm not as southern as these girls. Yes, i hunt and mud ride. But i do NOT wear boots belt buckles or cowgirl hats. I mentioned my concerns to him and he admitted he would like me more if i dressed like that. I want to change for him, but I'm afraid that if i do that he will only like me for my clothes and wont love me for me and if i don't that he will leave me for someone more fitted to his personality. But he also says he loves me just the way i am and doesn't want me to change anything about myself because i am perfect. HELP!! PLEASE!! Is it normal that he wants to change me?

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  • wreckd
    13 years ago

    Don't change for him. You're so perfect but you need to change everything about yourself? That's the dumbest thing I've ever heard. Be yourself and get rid of him.

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  • Loh
    11 years ago

    Don't change for anyone!!! Leave him asap!!

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    He wants willy to destroy his bum while homeless men jerk off over him.

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  • Dingo88
    12 years ago

    This dude is a dick and not at all worth your time. Dump the loser.

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  • queenb_yup
    13 years ago

    He wants to date her not you. You might love him very much, but he just wants to bang your sister.

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  • enoughofnothing
    13 years ago

    He's a jerk..if he doesnt love you the way you are dont change for him....he doesnt deserve all your attention...

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  • vnorthrup21
    13 years ago

    Not okay

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  • Juj
    13 years ago

    Um obviously he doesn't love you good enough if he said he would like you more if you CHANGED your style.. and as you say change you. As for what you should do find another man who likes you for you, and he can do the same.. he obviously has found some girls that interest him already. Even though youll deny deny deny because you say your in love, he's not as serious as you are about him.. Find a better man.

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  • 343Boy
    13 years ago

    It's obvious that he doesn't love you just they way you are, and he probably doesn't love you at all.

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  • CountryRoads
    13 years ago

    This is so strange.
    No. Putting boots on and a blinged out belt will not make him love you more.
    Sorry. You sound like you already know this, though.
    Ditch him and find a REAL southern gentleman.

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  • aussiewolf
    13 years ago

    no matter what you do or say, he is still going to keep cheating on you so why stay with him? i dont understand people sometimes.

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