My boyfriend treats me like this?

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Lately, it seems that my boyfriend is constantly getting angry at me for no real good reasons.
For example, he seems to find it "annoying" that I am always sleepy, or sick. I'm 14 weeks pregnant. You would think that he would understand the concept that pregnancy makes you feel bad.

The most recent thing that he got mad at me about is so stupid and didn't even require him to get angry about. I bought a new can of coffee grounds and I tried for a few minutes to pull the top off, but I couldn't. I admit, my grip isn't too strong, I have small hands.

So, I nicely asked him if he could open it for me, which didn't even take a minute, but he suddenly turned around and said to me: "You know, you could of done that. It wasn't too hard." in a bitchy tone of voice.

I tried to explain to him that I tried, but wasn't strong enough, but he didn't want to hear it and walked off. Leaving me baffled and hurt.

He also thinks that I should go with him whenever he wants to leave the house, which I can understand, but sometimes I'm either sleepy, or not feeling well, but he doesn't think that that's an excuse and gets all pouty about it.

Not to mention, he always wants to go to the same places, such as his grandma's, or his dad's house. Etc, mostly family members.

Honestly, I don't get along with his family too well, and sometimes, I wished he would take me somewhere more exciting, but if I try to suggest a place, he acts like it's a problem, even if it's just to go to the park.

Is this normal? What should I do? Should I break up with him?

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  • chained_rage
    8 years ago

    Here, I will give you a hug.

    *a hug*

    Anyway, he sucks for taking a minute to open a lid.

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  • Sweetpe
    8 years ago

    He really shouldn't be treating you like that pregnant or not yes it would be super stressful but no man that's ready to be a father should act like that

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  • Rainbowbash
    8 years ago

    Listen, for the time being with you being preggers, your boyfriends going to be a total doughe. He's either stressed about the little one, or the fact that you're really pretty, and he's a little ashamed/nervous/stressed when taking to you. You should stay together, but if he continues to be this way after the child, than he's a douche. Hope I helped.

    -God Bless, RainbowBash.

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  • Melora
    8 years ago

    Don't walk but run. You can do so much better than this.

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  • reginaFalangi
    8 years ago

    Start planning your life WITHOUT that idiot in it.
    Can you imagine what kind of father he'll be? Your kid could have the saddest mostboring childhood ever.

    The only exception to what i just said, just to give him the benefit of doubt, is he might be depressed or stressed about becoming a father. But then again if he's not mature enough to talk to you about it he's not worth your time.

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  • RoseIsabella
    8 years ago

    Why are you even with this jerk in the first place is what I'd like to know. He sounds extremely selfish.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      Because when we first started to date, he was much nicer and more considerate. I guess things change.

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      • RoseIsabella
        8 years ago

        Um hmm... they really do, and girl, you gotta change with em. Put on your ASICS running shoes and get moving away from that giant douche. He all red and rubbery and full of vinegar; I can smell that sorry ass mofo from here.

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