My boyfriend told his ex he still loved her and wanted to only be with

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My boyfriend told his ex he only wanted to be with her and loved her.When i found out he said he only said that because he wanted to know how well her relationship was going because she remarried and moved to new Mexico with his daughter.he says he loves me and only me I'm the love of his life and his best friend I've been done very wrong in the past and really couldn't take another big heart break he treats me and my kids good my kids are from my first marriage plus I've also have known him for 15 years and he has always tried to be with me now that i give him the chance he does this it hurt me really bad.should i believe him

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  • therealist
    12 years ago

    WHAT KIND OF EXCUSE IS THAT? I WAS JUST CHECKING UP ON HER RELATIONSHIP, DESPITE THE FACT THAT I'M IN A WONDERFUL, HAPPY RELATIONSHIP? DUMP HIM. DON'T BE STUPID AND DEGRADE YOUR SELF-VALUE AND SELF-RESPECT. DUMP HIM!

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  • killiminati
    13 years ago

    First of all his babys mom will be in his, your life forever and if he said he still loved her he probably does just not the same love he has for you. Hopefully.

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  • korn3654
    13 years ago

    Why does he care about her feelings for her husband? He still cares for her, then gave you an excuse.

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  • Gidget
    13 years ago

    leave him now he sounds like a douche

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  • Secretlysafe
    13 years ago

    Do yourself a favor & exit. If he said it he meant it, honey. If you think you're hurt now- imagine investing more time, love & years into your relationship & he leaves anyway. If he's having issues with seeing his kids then their is a thing called court & he can use it. He doesn't have to do things like that. Its a cop-out. And out of curiousity how did you find out about this?

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  • southernbarbie16
    13 years ago

    This sounds like my retarded cousin and my best friend

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  • susana24
    13 years ago

    my x does that all the time and I get so mad cuz he's happily married with child. he stalks me and still refurs to me as his girlfriend. we are each others first love for 6 years but I moved on and I don't like that he can't... I think it's men they can't let go. u be careful I don't think he'll do anything but he wants the idea that he can

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    • mrstree2u
      13 years ago

      well see thats where it get sticky i was his first true love back in 1993 we was together before he went to prison then he got out came looking for me and we was together for about 1 month then i meet my husband i was married to for 10 years in that time he meet her and had a daughter he said he said that just wanted to know how well the relationship was with him so she might move back home which is only 4 hr where she lives cuba new mex. i just dont know if thats the truth

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    You should leave. He never would have said that if he didn't mean it.

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  • Cherry_Uk
    13 years ago

    I can understand why he keeps contact with her if they have a daughter together, but it seems to me that he can't move on. You don't want to be someone who just fills in the gap. You never forget your first love. I'm really sorry, but i think you should leave. You will just end up getting heart broken if she clicks her fingers and he goes running back.

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  • randomjelly
    13 years ago

    Why would he care how her relationship is going? I think you know the truth here...

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  • evollove
    13 years ago

    GIVE HIM 1 MORE CHANCE....BUT ONLY 1 MORE...HE COULD BE TELLIN THE TRUTH. BUT IF HE FUCKS YOU OVER IN SOME WAY AGAIN... KICK HIM TO THE CURB!

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  • mrstree2u
    13 years ago

    Plus he doesn't get to see his daughter she keeps her from him plus he divorces her

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