My boyfriend thinks about other girls when we’re together

is it normal that my boyfriend admitted to me that when we’re having sex he prefers when he can’t see my face becuase he like to imagine that i’m other girls , and he admitted to me that he masturbates to other girls when he’s mad at me but we’re only teenagers so maybe it’s okay that he makes mistakes

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Based on 16 votes (5 yes)
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Comments ( 22 )
  • howaminotmyself

    Honey, that's not real honesty. While it is normal to fantasize about other people, to prefer it to the real person shows a complete lack of consideration for you. A truer statement would be that he likes having sex but would rather have it with someone else but he is desperate so he will take you. Have more pride in yourself. You deserve someone who wants all of you, not just your cunt.

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    • jigglynugget26

      yeah i guess but i love him too much and i think all boys do that but they just don’t tell people

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      • howaminotmyself

        To fantisize is normal, to literally prefer someone else is not a healthy relationship. To intentionally masturbate with someone else in mind as a form of punishment is not what boyfriends do. Why do you love him? He clearly doesnt love you. He has no respect for you as a person.

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        • jigglynugget26

          he does love me he didn’t say he prefers them over me he’s just being honest becuase he knows that i want to know these things , other than break up with him what should i do?

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          • howaminotmyself

            Research what a healthy relationship looks like. Look up codependence. Try loving yourself.

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            • jigglynugget26

              okay thank u

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  • litelander8

    Literally, dump him. That’s wack as fuck to say out loud.

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    • jigglynugget26

      isn’t it better that he told me instead of keeping it a secret tho

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      • litelander8

        No. It’s fucking rude.

        I think it’s pretty common to feel that way sometimes but I would be mortified if my bf said that to me. Jerking off to other chicks in anger? That’s just again, a fucked and weird thing to say out loud.

        I just hope y’all don’t live together. It’s not gonna go well.

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  • 1WeirdGuy

    You deserve better than that hes a dick.

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  • jethro

    Wow and he is still your boyfriend? I surely hope not.

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    • jigglynugget26

      yeah i still love him

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  • Curiouskitten444

    Nope! Heal yourself so that you dont accept this kind if attention. You deserve better. ❤

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  • DADNSCAL

    He's an inconsiderate jerk for even saying it. And a disingenuous creep for fucking you when he really would have other women. No wonder they dumped him. You should too.

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  • DrPissenschitz

    Wow, dump his toxic ass

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    • jigglynugget26

      but atleast he was being honest with me

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      • SkullsNRoses

        He was honest that he doesn’t want to look at your face whilst he thrusts inside you - is that a gentleman in 2023? Does he even go the extra mile and provide you a paper bag?

        Seriously though, this is insanely rude and he is trying to wear down your self-esteem. Leave his sorry ass.

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      • ibrokemyds

        you can do better than an honest asshole, i promise

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  • trexagireve

    Next time you have sex with him just watch bbc fucking teen girl on your phone and tell him that's what i call a real dick

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  • kelili

    What it means is that you are just a vagina he's fucking until he finds better.
    Just block him everywhere and stop making excuses for him.

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  • kikilizzo

    Don't be such a doormat, dump him girly. Learn some self respect. You're right, you guys are young but in this case it's you who needs to mature and the mature thing to do is respect yourself. You don't want to be an adult and still let men step all over you.

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    • jigglynugget26

      fairs

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